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  • #54834
    mlepp0416
    Member

    Mary:

    I’m so sorry to hear of your Tom passing, but just like my Tom they are at peace. I know first hand what you and your family are going through.
    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Huss,
    Margaret

    #54833

    I am new to the board, and didn’t know Tom’s story, but what a fighter he was. My mom died November 17th, so hopefully they have met each other and will be enjoying Thanksgiving in heaven together.

    Hugs and love

    Becky

    #54832
    andie
    Member

    Dear Mary,

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family at this heartbreaking time.

    Hugs

    Andrea x

    #54831
    karen
    Member

    Dear Mary,
    So very sorry for your loss and the hole that is your chest. I pray for your healing…I know the road you are about to travel. His strength will carry you through, as it has many of us on this board. Peace be dear lady.
    Karen

    #54830
    pcl1029
    Member

    Hi, Mary,
    I am so sorry to learn about Tom’s passing.
    May God’s Grace be always with you and your family.

    #54829
    cm
    Member

    Mary,
    I am so very sorry for your devastating loss.
    C x

    #54828
    katieloumatt
    Member

    Dear Mary,

    So very sorry to read your sad news that Tom has passed away. Sending you peace and strength to face the days and weeks ahead. Tom will never be far away from you, and I hope like Lainy you will come to see the signs.

    Hugs to you and all your family,

    Katie

    #54827
    kathyb
    Member

    Dear Mary,

    I, too, am sorry for your loss. You have been one of the very best caregivers.

    With prayers and love,
    Kathy

    #54826
    dianec
    Participant

    Dear Mary,

    Please accept my heartfelt condolences.

    Lainy’s Teddy is going to have a full table this Thanksgiving. Tom will be welcomed with open arms.

    Love,
    Diane

    #54825
    betsy
    Member

    Dear Mary,
    My heart is with you and your family today.

    xxooBetsy

    #54824
    gavin
    Moderator

    Dear Mary,

    I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Tom. Please accept my sincerest condolences. I wish at times there was something that I could say that would help, but please know we are all here for you. My thoughts are with you and your family right now.

    Gavin

    #54823
    mn
    Member

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss…my thoughts and prayers are with you.
    Love,
    Michelle

    #54822
    pamela
    Member

    Dear Mary,
    I am so sorry to hear that Tom has passed. I haven’t been on this site very long, but you always have a kind word to say to me. You were such an awesome wife and caregiver to Tom. I hope that gives you comfort to know that you did everything you could for him. I am glad he went peacefully. God bless you, Mary, as you face this difficult and sad time. I will be thinking of you and praying for you to find peace.

    Love,-Pam

    #54821
    lainy
    Member

    Dearest Mary, no words can describe what I am feeling for you and your family. Tom and Teddy ran pretty neck and neck and you bet they are together sharing a plate of Lasagna. Tom & Ted 2 of the very, very best. And you are right in that some of the emptyness comes from being fired from our jobs as Care Takers. Just know that I am cyber sending love and prayers to you and your family.

    If I should be the first to go,
    And leave you alone, my Dear,
    Let not your heart be lonely,
    Nor in your eyes a tear.
    Grieve not for me, my Darling,
    I’ll not be far away,
    With petals of love and tenderness,
    I’ll pave for you the way.
    To join me in our sanctuary,
    And ne’er again we’ll part.
    Grieve not for me, my Darling,
    I live within your heart.
    Take joy again in living,
    As you did in years gone by;
    God knows what of he’s doing,
    And not be questioned why.
    Grieve not for me, my Darling,
    My life with you on earth
    Each moment filled with happiness,
    And love so few be worth.
    I’ll be waiting for you Sweetheart
    Where skys are ever blue,
    With eager heart and open arms
    Patiently, for you.
    Grieve not for me, my Darling,
    May faith and my love keep.
    Your soul filled with contentment
    Eternally, I sleep.

    #54820
    darla
    Participant

    Oh Mary, I am so sorry for your loss. We have lost 2 of our Tom’s in the past few day’s. :( He did put up a good fight and got a lot more time than he was told, but no matter what we are told we are never ready for it when it actually happens. It is good that he wasn’t in pain and passed quickly. He no longer has to fight this battle and he will always be with you in your heart and memories. Know that I am thinking of you and your family.

    With Love & Hugs,
    Darla

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