darla

Dear Kirstie,

You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear mother. My husband also passed quickly from this disease and I try to console myself in knowing that atleast he did not suffer for a long time. Keep her forever in your heart & memories. Thinking of you.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your husband. There are no words to ease the pain, but try to take comfort knowing he is no longer suffering and is now in a better place. Keep him with you forever in your heart and memories.
Know there are people here that understand what you are going through and truely do care. Take care. Think of you.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

Dear Beverly,

You have my deepest sympathy on the passing of your father. I don’t have any answers for you either, but sometimes wonder if it is just the luck of the draw. I have not heard anything about a connection with Rockwell companies.

Some people on here are being successfully treated and others pass quickly like your dad. My husband did too. He was never sick and died less than 2 months after his first visit to the ER. He wasn’t diagnosed with the CC until 10 days before he passed. In his case there is talk of liver flukes in Asian countries and he served on an air craft carrier off Vietnam in the late ’60’s. Unfortunately it is almost impossible to prove and the government does not want to take responsibility.

I wish I had some answers for you, but unfortunately I do not. Once again, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Try to take comfort in the fact that he did not suffer long and is now in a better place. He will always be with you in your heart and memories. Take care.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

Dear Patti,

I too am sorry to hear of Bruce’s passing. You and your family have my deepest sympathy. Try to remember all the good times and know that he is no longer in pain or suffering. He has moved on to a better place. Keep him forever in your heart and memories.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

Dear Orlysud,

My husband died 7 weeks from the first sign of any problem, so I know what you are saying. He has been gone almost 4 1/2 years and I still experience a lot of what you are and yes, it is normal. Don’t let anyone presume to know how you should feel or what you should do. Only you know what is best for you. Keep taking comfort in knowing that your mom is near and watching over you. It will slowly get better. Just take things one day at a time.

Take care.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

I too am a believer and totally agree that you are not crazy. As for the rest, I have also experienced much of what you are and there is nothing we can do to change people. Until they experience a loss as great as we have they just will not get it.

Do what you feel in your heart is best for you and keep talking and listening to your mother, too. Only you know what is best for you and you don’t need people pushing things on you that you aren’t comfortable with. It sounds like the support you get from your meetings is what you want and need right now. What ever works for you is what is right for you.

Just keep taking baby steps and you will see that you will figure it all out and get through this somehow, one day at a time.

Take care.

Love & Hugs,
Darla

I am so sorry for what you are experiencing, but unfortunately it is something you can not change. Yes, eventually you will be able to remember the good times and even smile at those thoughts. Everyone’s grief has it’s own time table and everyone has their own way’s of coping and you will find your’s. it’s not easy, but you will find that you are stronger than you think. You will be OK. It just takes time.

Take care and keep come back. It does help and we all care and understand.

Love & Hugs,
Darla