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  • in reply to: Port Problems and chemo side effects #83013
    kvolland
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    Julie –
    I understand that thoughts about the port. Mark had to have his pulled after his first three doses of chemo….clear back in September because of his continual problems with blood infections and the concern that the port was the source. He had to keep it out for two months and then we had the discussion about placing a new port. At the time we were more than half-way done with chemo and he opted to not have the port replaced. So he had to have an IV start every time he did chemo. It was awful. One time we ran over two hours late because it took that long to get a line in and then had to wait another hour for labs. After that they would draw his labs from hie elbow area and then call the IV team to start an IV. I would give him Ativan before we got there so he could make it through. It was frustrating for me because I knew I could get a line in him. Then to top it off he had to have the port put back in before he started the chemo-radiation in March. We should have just done it when we talked about it in November.

    And you are right, the port will have to be flushed monthly after you are done with chemo….but you could just have it taken out at that point then have a new one put in if needed later on down the road and maybe it would be better placement.

    If you opt to have the port replaced, I would without a doubt have a long talk with the surgeon before hand about having it placed…where it would work better. I would think closer to the middle of your chest. That’s is where Mark’s is. He hunts some and when they decided to put it in the right side, it would interfere with the port so he explained that to the doc and he placed it more center. I don’t think most people realize that you can ask for placement…..I have actually seen a port placed in the inside of the upper arm rather than in the chest.

    Keeping thinking positive….the end is worth the battle. And when you get all those gold stars on you calender treat yourself to a spa day or something nice like that. A reward for those stars just like when we were kids. :) Hang in there. This too shall pass.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Information, please #82923
    kvolland
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    Larissa –
    I echo Lainy. I am so glad you are going to be able to go down and see her. Hospice is a good option especially if she is tired of being sick. They will give her and her entire family (including you) the support you need. I never see hospice as giving up but taking control of the disease. She had made the choice to be comfortable and that is the best we can all ask for.
    Have a nice safe flight down there. I will keep you and your aunt and family in my thoughts and prayers.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Introduction & Research Help Please #82895
    kvolland
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    Snewland66 –
    Welcome to our little family. Sorry you had to join us and so sorry you lost your husband to this awful disease.
    I have not seen any specific link to those diseases. I know for my husband he had a history of Hodgkin’s lymphoma as a child and they speculate that the radiation he received for that may have caused the cc but nothing definitive. He has a family history of colon cancer. Other than my husband’s experience with both diseases I don’t have an answer.
    I know Primary Sclerosing Cholangitis and some other liver infections such as hepatitis may predispose a person to cc. Also in SE Asia the eating of raw fish can lead to a parasitic liver infection with a liver fluke that increases the risk.
    I am sorry I could not be of more help. I am sure others will chime and maybe someone can point you in a better direction. Good luck.

    KrisV

    in reply to: CC free 2nd resection #82949
    kvolland
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    WooHoo Steve and Liz –
    Successful resection is wonderful to hear especially with clear margins. You will find many discussion on here about chemo or not to chemo. You could use the Search function on the heading tool bar and probably find most of them.
    There are arguments both ways and people have chosen both ways. I know my husband decided to do it all….resection then chemo then finally chemoradiation. Not sure he would chose to do it all over again. His theory is that he wanted to do all he could to keep it from coming back. A second opinion is always a good thing.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Bilirubin in good range and tumor markers down #82868
    kvolland
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    JanBee –
    I feel your pain with the eating. My husband has lost pretty close to 80# since this all started. Thankfully he had some to lose so he doesn’t look too bad. It is really hard to keep calories going in when they aren’t hungry, nothing sounds good and they get full so fast.
    I pretty much suggest throwing most diet restrictions (ie low fat, low cholesterol) out the window for the time being…..those can be fixed later. Everyone has had good suggestions and two that I might add would be….dry powdered milk. Yes, most of us will say yuck but it can be added to most anything to add calories and protein. We put it in oatmeal, malt o’meal, cream soups (made those with milk too rather than water) and I have even put it in yogurt and potatoes. The other thing I did was in making jello…..my husband liked it and it does count as a fluid but not a lot of protein (some but not a lot). I made it and substituted Ensure clear (wild berry or mango orange I think are the two flavors) for the cold water. It sets up just a little cloudy but not bad and taste-wise it’s about the same. It also doubles the protein in it.
    Also GNC has whey protein powders in many flavors which can be added to shakes or just mixed up and drank.
    We also resorted to using Megace to stimulate his appetite and he has been told that once he starts gaining weight, he can stop it. No weight gain yet but he stopped losing finally.

    Hope this helps.
    KrisV

    in reply to: Information, please #82917
    kvolland
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    Larissa –
    Welcome to the best little family to support you through this. I will echo what others have said, 2nd opinions are important even if someone has said there is nothing else to do. There is no set treatment protocols so one doc may have a different approach or different ideas that the next. It never hurts to have a 2nd one.
    The other suggestion would be to see what you aunt wants, does she continue to want aggressive treatment or has she decided she is done with aggressive treatment. If she is done with aggressive treatment then Hospice is a great option to help her stay at home and comfortable and give your entire family the support they will need.
    She is very fortunate to have such a loving family.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Doctor not optimistic #82975
    kvolland
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    Suzy –
    I am so sorry that you are having to go through all this the way you are….and in such a short period of time.
    I would not discount hospice as an option. I understand that it feels like giving up but it’s not giving up but changing course. It might be a question to ask your ONC and see what his opinion is at this point.
    I will keep you both in my thoughts that things turn around.

    KrisV

    in reply to: My Introduction and history #82962
    kvolland
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    Virginia –
    Welcome to the family and congratulations that things have gone so well. I am so happy to hear the word resection. I am so glad your doc was paying attention to the enzymes.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Delerium #82879
    kvolland
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    Suzyq – so glad things seem to be turning around a little. It just sounded too severe to be chemo brain. I will weigh on the anti-depressant….if she had been on it for a long time them it might be time to switch things up or even ask yourself/her if it is really needed. If you decide to switch then you might look at Mirtazipine (Remeron). It has a couple of side effects that are actually desirable….it is taken at night and often helps with sleep and it also stimulates the appetite. Both of those are awesome when battling this disease.

    Hope things get going better.

    KrisV

    in reply to: Hospice & stent issues #82886
    kvolland
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    Not sure I have a definitive answer for you but I can throw out some suggestions. I am not sure her stents leaking would cause the delirium although if there is any infection that would certainly cause the change. One of the things that happens when the liver is involved in anything is the build-up of ammonia levels since the liver cannot get it cleared out of the system. It might be worth have her blood drawn for that since it could be an easy fix. They usually use a liquid medication called Lactuose to bind the ammonia and take it out in the stools.
    As for the pain medications, they may be contributing some to her changes but I would rather see her not having any or very little pain and being confused than have her in pain.
    I do know that toward the end of life many people will see and talk to people that are gone, especially parents or spouse. Often asking for them or reaching out as if to grab them. There are many theories as to why this happens. Some think hallucinations and other believe they are seeing the spirits of loves ones who have passed. No matter which one you chose to believe, as long as it is not scaring her, just reassure her and kind of go along with her. There’s no sense in arguing with her. If she becomes agitated, scared or extremely restless talk to your hospice nurse. There are medicatinos such as Risperidal or Haldol or even lorazepam which can help.
    I would talk to MD Anderson and see what they have to say about her tolerating it. I may be time to think long and hard about what your mom would want. It is terribly hard and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Hugs,
    KrisV

    in reply to: Delerium #82876
    kvolland
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    Suzyq –

    Wow sounds like more than just chemo brain to me. It sounds more like encephalopathy which is when the brain gets scrambled. It can be caused by numerous things such as meds (chemo can do it) but things like pain medications also. The biggest reason is that the ammonia levels build up in the body due to the liver not processing things correctly. I wonder if you noted that her belly is getting a little bloated over the last few days. If that is the case I would call the ONC ASAP and let them know what it going on. There are medications that can help reverse that….lactulose is a thick syrup like med that you drink and it pulls the ammonia out of the system….it does cause diarrhea but it may be worth it. They can also do other things that can help.
    Also if she had lost a lot of weight some of her medications may needs to be adjusted down to smaller doses. So many meds can be weight based and when the weight drops then less is needed. I would definitely get her seen and have them do labs….especially ammonia levels.

    Hope this helps.
    KrisV

    in reply to: Update and Hearing Loss #82870
    kvolland
    Spectator

    Hi Jim,
    Without a doubt tell your doctor about it, even if it goes away after a bit….and it should hopefully. It does not mean they have to stop chemo, you may just need a lower dose or given slower. The doc will know the answer for sure but please tell him. I found out just recently that my husband was not very honest about how the oxaliplantin affected his hearing so he does have some permanent loss and some ongoing ringing. He figured if he ignored it, it wouldn’t matter. And he says it’s not too bad. Although I know he doesn’t hear as well.
    Hope the fatigue and flip-flopping of the stomach don’t get any worse for you.

    KrisV

    in reply to: How did you find this site? #82838
    kvolland
    Spectator

    I confess to google. As soon as the first doc said the words, cholangiocarcinoma and cancer in the came sentence. I lurked for a long time before I joined. Of course, I spent a long period of time looking for the good news about it on the internet….you know….what the cure was. We all know what I found. But once I got active on this site, I learned there are successes so it helped me a lot.

    KrisV

    in reply to: IF I May Update My Conditions #82828
    kvolland
    Spectator

    Well, at least you don’t have to have any surgeries right now…..I know the scans will turn out fine so I will just keep my fingers crossed that the Remicade really kicks in and no more new medications. I would hate to think that you went through all that with the Remicade and had to switch it up.

    Love,
    KrisV

    in reply to: My Introduction #80198
    kvolland
    Spectator

    Oh Matt, I feel your pain….I had my gallbladder out a few years ago and while not like having the resection surgery….fat is not my friend. I have found that bacon and fast food burgers (yes I will admit to both) are my kryptonite. I found that eating something high is carbs before hand helps some….so bread, pasta….okay french fries too. There is a prescription medication that helps bind the bile salts that may help….it’s called cholestyramine (Questran is one of the name brands). It’s often a powder form that you drink before you eat. I have heard a lot of good about that. Not had to use it myself. A little Immodium seems to fix it for me.

    The other things my GI doc told me was that sometimes the bile acid will wash back into the stomach (both with just gallbladder and with the Roux-en-Y) which can cause irritation of the stomach. This was causing me heart burn (yeah, okay we took the gallbladder out for that and I still have it….UGH!) so now I take Prilosec twice a day to reduce the acid. That has made a big difference for me.

    Ask your doc before adding anything but it might be worth a try….and Mark wishes he had your problem….everything constipates him so no problems with food for him. Hope this helps. Should have just taken the Prilosec and kept the darn gallbladder. :)

    KrisV

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