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Tiah, so sorry about your Mum’s new lesions. But what I hear is that they are still proceeding with the surgery so that is still the good news. Hang in and hang on this crazy roller coaster ride. Sending good thoughts and vibes to your family.
Dear Steven, I am so sorry to read about your Dear Mother and send you my sincerest condolences. Mothers really never leave their children and I feel she will always and forever be around you.
Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn’s rain,
When you awaken in the morning’s hush,
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.
For everything beautiful that you see
will bring a memory of me.Dearest Jan, I am so very sorry and please accept my sincere condolences on the Passing of your dear Mum. To die is to take the last step in the road to Eternal Life.
I’M STILL HERE
I’m at your side each night and day,
In your heart is where I’ll stay.
You can feel, see or hear, I am not gone, I’m always near.
I’m the colorful leaves when fall comes round,
The pure white snow that blankets the ground.
I’m the first bright blossom you’ll see in Spring.
The first warm raindrop that April will bring.
I’m the first ray of light when the sun starts to shine,
And you’ll see that the face in the moon is mine.
I’ll whisper your name through the leaves on the trees,
And you’ll feel my presence in the soft summer breeze.
I’m the salty tears that flow when you weep,
And the beautiful dreams that come while you sleep.
I’m the smile you see on a baby’s face.
Just look for me, I’m every place!Dear Jennifer, welcome to our remarkable family but so sorry you had to find us. I can’t help on your question but wanted to let you know you have come to the best place to be for CC support.
I have listed a site below that you may find helpful and please keep us informed on Tim’s progress as we truly care.http://cholangiocarcinoma.org/newly-dx/
Dear Dave, welcome to our remarkable family, so sorry you had to join us but like Julie wrote….you will be glad you did. Hurrah for that GI specialist! Below is a site that you may find helpful as a new member and please do keep us in your loop by letting us know how you are doing. No one wants to be here but you will find the most loving and caring people in the world.
http://cholangiocarcinoma.org/newly-dx/
Julie, time for Dr. Javle? I just emailed you but have a suggestion. Can you take a little something to help the nerves. If I was there we could really tie one on. Oops, I just smell alcohol and I am 3 sheets to the wind….but it could be fun! I know you would laugh at me hysterically. Anyway I am with you in spirit!
Dear Vallerina, welcome to our remarkable family and we really understand. The big announcement from the Doctor is like being hit in the stomach with a bat. But, know that when the treatment begins the fright turns to fight. I am going to post a site below that may be helpful. May I ask a few questions so that we may also be helpful?
How old is Dad?
Where is be being treated? What are they suggesting for treatment.
What is the Diagnosis?
You never know how strong you are until “strong” is the only choice you have! Hang in and hang on as Dad needs you now. Please keep us posted on how he is doing as we really care.http://cholangiocarcinoma.org/newly-dx/
Well, Matt, I have 2 things to say: Keep up the great work and I know it is tough work and #2, Those are 2 good looking Reidy’s!
Daisy, what a team you and your Mum are!! You will cherish this moment in time and how proud you are of each other. You both traveled this bumpy road with so much love and admiration and dignity. You are going to be OK and I think Mum knows that too. Sending you both so much love.
Dearest Daisy, you are a phenomenal Daughter and doing everything just right. One suggestion is to dampen the towel you are using on Mum with cold water and that really helps the itching. Cannot help on the urinating as the last day they put a diaper on Teddy but all his functions stopped and the diaper stayed clean. Teddy was also on Haldol as he was getting hallucinations from the Morphine. It sounds like Mum is really ready to make this journey now to eternal peace. She is probably smiling to herself at the amazing daughter she has.
WOW! With all the stuff he is consuming does he have room for food?! LOL Glad to hear he is bearing up well and I hope he has a good weekend.
Jan, I echo what Joe has said about not pushing Mom too much. Her energy is being used up by fighting the “monster” and there is no energy left for good things. And the meds she is on are pretty sapping. The most important thing at this point is her comfort. I just had idea about your Dad. Perhaps a clergy could help you in talking to your Dad. Acceptance in what is to be sure makes a difference when and if that time comes. Honestly I believe your Mum is trying to show you that she would just like some peace. No one can blame her. Sending you and yours all my best.
Shellie, venting totally allowed here! Sorry to read about your Fiancé’s CT Scam and sorry but it really doesn’t seem to end that quickly. We try to remain realistically optimistic. None of us have bought a ticket for this roller coaster ride. The goods is the chemo should take care of those 2 nasty’s. Hang in and hang on!
Dear Rangani and Jenny, If you both would want my list of the 10 signs the End is near please send me an email and I will email them to you. I found them to be very helpful as they also give suggestions on how to handle each sign. Sometimes to be aware ahead of time helps in getting to the end. You never know how strong you are until “strong” is the only choice you have!
