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SpectatorThese are fabulous and amazing milestones and your personal history really is a testament to hope, survival and the marvels of medicine. Thanks for sharing and have a beautiful December!
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SpectatorThank you for the update. I’m really happy to hear about this cream and truly hopes it continues to work for your husband.
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SpectatorMe too! Praying for low markers and stability for you, Lisa! Willow
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SpectatorI too am thinking if you Michelle, at this stressful and sad time. Pray that the hospice nurses can get to the bottom of the nausea. That compounded topical cream sounds worth a try. Like Marion said, it could be a physical of age that might require a more agressive approach for symptom relief. Never hesitate to call hospice out in addition to their regulay scheded check-ins.
God Bless you, your husband and family.
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SpectatorSorry to hear that you and our boyfriend are having a hard time. You’ve been a wonderful advocate and everyone needs that. Hang in there.
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SpectatorThanks for bringing up this therapy. I had not heard of it. Sounds promising. Please keep us up to date on your treatment and all the best to you!
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SpectatorJust want to add my welcome and empathy to the shock that CC is. So ironic that you are an oncology RN! I think we have another member who was caring for her husband and is also an oncogist RN. Hopefully this can help to navigate “the system” of insurance and cancer care. Helpful but doesn’t make it any easier when your spouse has this rare and unpredictable cancer. I read recently another or posted that Megace helped her husband to have an appetite. Also want to add that my sister (unresectable Intrahepatic CC stage 4 diag July 2012) is being treated by the team at Stanford and has been very happy with them.. Though originally diagnosed by Kaiser in San Jose.. We quickly got to Stanford. Seems UCSF is better known for treating CC as far as Bay Area, but that’s just too difficult to get to for frequent appointments and chemo. I’ve heard chemo can be prescribed and then administered at places closer to your home but my sister feels that it’s better to have everything under one roof so paperwork and records are together and nothing gets delayed or lost. She has maintained her weight and appetite fairly well. Has had 3 kinds of chemo and the Y-90 radioembolization so far. I know every case is different but I just wanted to say hello from another member in Northern CA. Hang in there!
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SpectatorHi again, Kris
Just wanted to let you know that I learned at work yesterday of a treatment for fibroids that sounds like embolization to “plug” the blood vessels feeding the fibroids. I’m not sure what conditions warrant such treatment but this particular had so many fibroids that she had to have a c-section to deliver her daughter safely. Later, they did the embolization and the fibroids shrunk up and “died”. I didn’t know that embization of blood vessels is used for so many conditions in medicine. My older sister also had embolization of a blood vessel in her brain that had bled (hemmorhagic dissecting aneurism) last year. Miracle she survived the aneurism and is thriving today. Interventional radiologists do this kind of surgery. Anyhow, I’m digressing!! I imagine that if a woman is past childbearing age they just do a hysterectomy if and when fibroids become a problem (but they aren’t always a problem).willow
SpectatorJules,
Just adding my well wishes for your Mom to have this surgery. Merry Christmas! Willowwillow
SpectatorWow, Lisa… I didn’t know whether to laugh or cry! Thanks for sharing that!
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SpectatorKris, this is FABULOUS news on both scan and markers!! Good for you! This trial seems to be the right thing for you! I am also impressed at your faith and wonderful energy that you so generously share. Keep the good news coming and let us know what the doc says about the fibroids.
Cheers, Willowwillow
SpectatorHi Porter,
You have a great attitude and clearly a huge motivation with little ones to raise! That’s what bothers me deeply about my sister having cc.. Her innocent young son is affected and she doesn’t always have the energy to do the things moms love to do with and for their kids. Like you, she is grateful for feeling mostly good. I’m hoping and praying for you for lots more shrinkage shown in the upcoming scan. 3cm is a lot already, how much more do you need to be considered for surgery?willow
SpectatorHospice can only help. Your husband sounds like he is preparing to cross over. I do wish he would try meds to control pain. Maybe he needs different kind?Hospice does not force anything on your family and is simply there to help. They are it there all the time either. It provide meds, visits, equipment, and support. I highly recommend taking advantage of those things. After revolving door at ERs with my Dad which was so hard on him, it was so nice to have house calls for medical issues. Keep in mind that you can opt back out of hospice any time. Thinking of you, Michelle, your husband and kids at this profound and awful time.
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SpectatorDear Dorien,
I thought sharing my sisters y-90 experience was “real life” and helpful. My friend Martha’s experience was also not bad. Though not a cure, Y-90 is not a last ditch treatment but is one of many treatments for liver tumors. My sister went through y-90 with no complications beyond some pain that got bad around the 2-3 week point. The treatment did help those tumors targeted… Just doesn’t stop microscopic seed cells that were metastasizing. My sister is still here, almost a year from the Y-90 (15 months from diagnosis) and with no serious complications from the CC amazingly. She is still on palliative chemo to buy time (3rd kind) and her disease is still slowly progressing which is super scary. The unknowns can drive you crazy so we try to focus on one day at a time. There’s a book written by the wife of a CC survivor called “Every 15 minutes” and advises to focus and deal with life in small increments to keep from being overwhelmed and paralyzed with fear and grief. Because you have a family and husband to care for, I hope you’re seeking help for yourself. My other advice is to simplify home life as much as possible… This is what I’m doing… A LOT less than I used to. My kids had to cut back on activities too because we just can’t do it all and it makes for a calmer household.
I’m so sorry your husband is having a bad experience. You’re not alone.
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SpectatorWe’re ok here. It’s finally “cold” at 55 degrees and windy. We’re worshipping the rain gods for lots of rain and snowpack in the mountains here in Noethern California. Going to central coAst for thanksgiving holiday to visit our daughter who is a freshman at college there. Meanwhile, working p.t. And holding down the fort w the kid still a At home.
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