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  • in reply to: Not the best update #66411
    darla
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    Hi Tiff,

    Hope things go well. Let us know when you know more. Thinking of you and keeping my fingers crossed. :)

    Love,
    Darla

    in reply to: Alla’s Husband At Peace #65813
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    Alla,

    Glad to hear things are easing a bit for you. Keeping busy does help. Think of you often.

    Hope the piano lesson went well. :)

    Love,
    Darla

    in reply to: Struggling with loss #65924
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    Nancy, That was very well said. After 4 years, this is still how I am feeling too. Somehow we just keep putting one foot in front of the other and taking things as they come. One day at a time.

    Alla, Just an interesting little side note. A woman who has become a very close friend of mine lost her husband a few months after Jim passed away. His name was also Marty. :) He didn’t have CC, but our situations are so similar that we have become each others strength. When I realized your husband was another Marty I had to share that with you. Not sure what it means, but it is an interesting coincidence.

    Take care ladies.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Yet another CT scan on Friday Nov 2 #66196
    darla
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    Oh Kris, So sorry to hear of what you are dealing with. This is no walk in the park on a good day, but who needs all the added stress and hassles. Hope everything works out for you. Thinking of you and fingers crossed for easy going from here on. Hope all goes well.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Wedding ring? #66141
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    Alla,

    It’s been a little over 4 years for me and I still wear mine. I agree with all the other ladies. It is a personal choice. Whatever feels right to you.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Struggling with loss #65936
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    Alla,

    I agree and can only reiterate what Pam has already said. It is all so true. Just want you to know I am thinking of you and do know how you feel and what you are going through. We are all in this together. Take care.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Lauren had an allergic reaction to Oxaliplatin #66008
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    Pam, Just caught this. What a scarey experience for both of you. Glad to hear all is now well and she is feeling great today.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Struggling with loss #65927
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    Alla,

    You are just beginning this journey and I’m not going to tell you it is going to be easy. It is not. I’m four years into this and still have my good and bad days. You never know what or when it will hit, but with time it does get better.

    I read this and posted it a while back:
    You never know how strong you are until being strong is the only choice you have. That is so true.

    Just keep on going as best you can and deal with things as they come. One day at a time.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Cancer Treatment Center or University Hospital? #63390
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    srengle,

    You and your family have my deepest sympathy on the loss of your husband. No words can change what happened or make it better, but try to take comfort in knowing he is no longer suffering or in pain. Keep him forever in your heart and memories. We are all here for you to help and support you in any way we can.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Response to Alla’s posting #65475
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    Alla,

    Thanks for sharing your experience with us. I too believe the butterfly was Marty’s way of letting you know that he is OK and is near by giving you the strength and support you need to get through all of this.

    I am glad you are also getting much needed support from your friends. Hang in there. You will be OK.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Response to Alla’s posting #65469
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    Dear Alla,

    You and your children have my deepest sympathy. I am so sorry for your loss and for what you all have had to endure. Try to take some comfort in knowing that he is in a better place. He is now at peace and no longer suffering. He will always be with you in your heart and memories. My heart goes out to you and your family. We are all here for you when you are ready. Know that I am thinking of you and share your pain and grief.

    With Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Cholangiocarcinoma Awareness #65803
    darla
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    Awesome video and an awesome family. You are an inspiration to all of us.

    in reply to: Introduction: Stephen Kinsey #65121
    darla
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    Thanks for letting us know that Steve lost his battle with CC and for sharing his obituary with us. It sounds like he was an amazing young man with so much to give and so much to live for I am sure that he will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. My sympathy and condolences to his family and friends.

    Darla

    in reply to: Introduction #65171
    darla
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    Hi Darla,

    Another Darla here. Hope you get the results soon and they are good. My nephew lives in St. Louis and speaks very highly of Barnes. Look forward to hearing the results.

    Thinking of you and hoping for the best for you.

    Take csre.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

    in reply to: Response to Alla’s posting #65433
    darla
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    Alla,

    I am so sorry to hear of what you and your family are going through. Many of us have been through the same and know how you are feeling. I am glad to hear his son will be there to help and support you.

    Many thoughts and prayers coming your way.

    Take care.

    Love & Hugs,
    Darla

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