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SpectatorI also can relate to all of you and everything that has been said. It is the same for me. It has been almost 3 years and I still miss my husband so very much. Life does go on, we will all be OK, but our lives will never be the same and there will always be a part of us that has been lost forever. Together we can help and comfort each other and help each other to heal.
Love & Hugs To All,
Darladarla
SpectatorMargaret,
This is good news. So just keep kickin that cancer.
Thinking of you both.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorYes Margaret, I agree with Lainy. If this is Tom’s time to move on, you will make it. You will be OK. It has been almost 3 years for me and I had never been alone either, but I am doing OK. It hasn’t always been easy, but we do what we have to do. We have no choice but to deal with whatever we are given. You are a strong lady and whatever the outcome you will deal with it. I too am hoping things will turn around once again for you and Tom, but know that if and when the time comes, we are all here for you.
With lot’s of love & hugs for you both.
Darladarla
SpectatorSue,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your wonderful daughter. No words can ease your pain and sadness, but try to take comfort in knowing that atleast now she is no longer suffering and is at peace. She will be remembered by those who knew and loved her and will always be with you in your heart and memories.
With Love & Hugs,
DarlaJuly 30, 2011 at 7:09 pm in reply to: My darling, Anthony, it’s been three years since you left me……. #51956darla
SpectatorDear Pauline,
As you know, the feelings you expressed mirror mine. You have said it well. The poem is so appropriate. You know I am thinking of you as we travel this road of sadness together.
Some how, we will all get thorough this, one day at a time.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorJeff,
Thinking of you and hoping you are able to remeber all the good times you and Marc had together. He will always be a part of you in your heart and memories.
Darla
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SpectatorMary,
I feel so badly for you and Tom and know exactly what you are feeling and going through. I’ve been there, the only difference being that it all went so quickly we didn’t have time to think about what was happening. For Jim it was less than 2 months from start to finish. For me it was hard to accept because it went so quickly, but thinking back I can now say I am glad in a way that he didn’t have to suffer very long. We too seemed to go from one problem to another. In and out of the hospital. The last time he was home they wanted us to have some time out of the hospital together, but he ended up back there, too. I think he also felt it was all too hard on me. I really didn’t mind. I just was doing what I had to do for him. We were together 45 years. Married 41. Also did everything together 24/7. It will be 3 years the beginning of September since Jim passed on and yes, I still miss him. It still hurts and I have a big hole in my heart and life that no one can fill, but I am doing OK. Some days are better than others, but I have realized that we are much stronger than we think. I’m not going to say it is easy, but you will get through this and you will be OK. Just be there for him and yes, keeping Tom comfortable and as free of pain as possible is the most important thing.
Know that I am thinking of you both and hoping for the best for both of you as you deal with all of this.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorMargaret,
Glad to hear that things are improving for Tom and for you too.
Thinking of both of you.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorMargaret,
I too know all too well how hard it was to say yes to that question. Thinking of you and Tom. Lots of prayers going out to you both.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorHi CM,
I have to agree with Karen. Everything she said is much the same as I would say to you. My husband passed almost 3 years ago. Less than 2 months after his first symtoms, so I do know how you are feeling. He was 62 and we had been together almost 45 years.
Yes David will always be with you and your daughter in your heart and your memories. He died too young, but you can keep his memory alive for your daughter.
None of this is easy and you will always feel that part of you is missing, but it does easy somewhat with time. Take care and know I am thinking of you and your daughter and hope you can find some comfort and peace.
Love and Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorJen,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad is now at peace and no longer suffering. He will always be with you in your heart and memories. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
Darla
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SpectatorChrissy, You have my sympathy on the loss of your husband. Be comforted in knowing that he is now in a better place and no longer suffering. He will always be with you in your heart and memories. My thoughts are with you ane your daughter at this sad time.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorDear Rose,
I am so sorry to hear that your dad has passed so quickly. Try to take some comfort in knowing that he is no longer in pain or suffering. He will always be with you in your thoughts and memories. You will find that his love still surrounds you. My thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorThanks for your concern Marion and you are so right, but not to worry, I have been managing some mini breaks, a day in Door County now and then and spent today with a friendy antiquing and specialty shopping in Milwaukee. That’s all I can manage for the moment, short one day get aways, but it does help.
Go, enjoy and we will all be waiting to hear from you on your return.
Love & Hugs,
Darladarla
SpectatorMarion,
Relax and enjoy your trip. As Lainy said, it is well deserved. Travel safely.
Love & Hugs,
Darla -
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