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Mary,
Thanks a Bunch! I’m going to make believe I’m Popeye the Sailor Man for a while. Ha!
Jeff G.jeffgMemberRichard… I would have CBC done to see if her WBCs are elavated for possible infection from inflamation. The Lady who use to live next door had recurring bouts of cholangitis and told me when she had a bout it felt like she was all blocked up and had pain like she was passing a stone she also mention she had itchy feeling of chest and neck area with a fever and eventually would be put on antibiotic cypro(sp) due to inflamation and backed up bacteria became infected. That’s the only experience other than my own post liver resection, I use a stool softner for irritable bowel syndrome I gues they called it. Hope she feels better soon.
Jeff G.jeffgMemberHi Kris, I have the same problem. It’s sort like you see on the TV, the restless leg syndrome. I take 1mg tablet clonazepam at bedtime and additional tablet as needed. I had tried ambien a couple of years ago and wow, it wound me up tighter than a musical teddy bear.
Jeff G. P.S. I have shaky and trouble writing off and on and contribute it to accumalative nueropathy from the chemo.jeffgMemberMary. main article on Cancer Compass today was the use of Ip-6 with inostol and spinach listing all the cancer fighting minerales and vitamins: vit C,A,K,E, B-6,Manganese,magnesium iorn,caliciam,potassium,copper,phosphous,zinc and folate asn high fiber, as well as beta- carateen. the use of Ip-6 was a controversal thing about taking during chemo treatments. But thet say it ‘s a myth and could even assist in killing the cancer cells. I used to take IP-6 with inostol and eat alot of spinach. I thing I will start it back up again just for the hecht of it. Of cause will need to add an iron supplement if taken long term Ip-6. Check it out if your hubby likes spinach. The title is” do what the sailor does” Just thought I would past along. You have a nice day. My wife returns from England today so I know I’m happy. Just going crazy waiting to go pick her up at the airport. Only 15 minutes away.
God Bless You,
Jeff G.jeffgMemberKris…. I have been thinking all day about what could be causing the tingling in your husbands chest and really can’t think of anything in particular. Just thinking out loud now….. If he has a porta cathe possible leakage but I would think he would be in considerably pain. Does he take a capsule each morning 30 minutes prior to breakfast to keep his stomach acid low,could be having a slight reflux reaction going on. Also, chemo side effect are not limited only to those that are impressed upon us. Beings that chemo plays with our central nervous system it is posssible I would think. I have hiccups the first two days of chemo and my Oncologist said he never heard of that either. Is he laying or sleeping differently/position ? Circulation of blood flow maybe. I know chemo has played up my heart a little. sometimes my pulse goes done to 35-40 bpm but bounces back up to normal within a few minutes. Had stress test done and heart is fine. Is he keeping hydrated real good? His He totally stressed or calm. Does soaking in a warm tub for awhile help at All. Now that Iv’e thought out loud I guess I would watch closely and if you notice more tingling like the first few days of infusion if he has a porta cathe,then I would think maybe a tiny leakage which can be checked out in 5 minutes using a fluorascope(sp) certainalyl if any pain is involved. Another thing that comes to mind is pain medication depending on the type and dosage has been known to cause numbess and tingling all over. I Really hope things are working for him. Hope you figure out the tingling sensation. I do know that women with cancer in the breast ,it is common for tingling in the chest area. But I’ve never come across the same for men. Keep on trucking!
God Bless You Both’
Jeff G.jeffgMemberMary, From what I understand is that althought cholangiocarcinoma and adenocarcinomon is of the same family of the carcinomas, cholangio is when the disease begins from within the organs and adeno is when is mets from other location and usually begins on the outside of an organ, which I think can explain why some may do better than others as far as survivabulity. It takes a real good pathologist to determine the difference and then they can make a mistake and have to double check as under micropscope the cell differiation is so much alike. I understand the treatment is basically the same if advanced but eventually adeno works it way enternally. I actually researched and found that out on a site yesterday. I just typed cholangiocarcinoma vs adenocarcinoma and got a few hits explaining the difference. Either can be intraheptic or extraheptic and lower grade vs higher of either can be determined by a good pathology report. The site I hit actually show CT Scans and MRIs of the difference with views of cells showing the different makeup. I will try and find it again and bookmark it to share. If anyone has seen or knows of this please jump in.
From what I also understand is if it is found earlier enough and is more on the adeno side and is resected your long term surviability is more likely. I only understand to a point as it is all considered systemic. I’ll try and find site again and share it with all. I wish you and your husband the best.
Jeff G.
P.S. Thanks for the wish and the same for your Husband and you of course. Beautiful day out today; got to plant some more flowers. Looking primarily for colorful perenials that return every year.
P.S. #2 Baylor College University of Texas is were I got a lot of the inormation http://www.baylor.edu article of the month.jeffgMemberCass….. I am very sorry to hear of your sisters’s diagnosis. You’ll inherit a world of information in the days to come. Bottom line there is no known cure but many types of treatments. We are all individuals on our own personal journey hoping to find something that works better or eventually hit on something that will help many. It’s like going fishing and waiting for that bobber to go down. Some days it happens and others it don’t. Sometimes the bobber just swirls around and bounces a little giving us just a little bit more hope that we’ll catch that fish(cure). Even if it’s a small fish and only satisfies us for a while. One day we’ll catch the big one. If I don’t get the big one at least I had the enjoyment of fishing at a beautiful lake. knowing I tried means to me I contributed so that one day someone else will catch the big one. I would love to share my catch with all. Many options Cass and many opinions by a lot of individuals . You’ll have to weigh and decide with your Sister to determine which road to take. Not all is known by us here on this site but we can provide you with some pretty solid advice of want has and hasn’t worked for us as individuals. We have a common illness but we are all individuals with different outcomes. 8 Years and I’m still going to bed with my wife each night, I’m still supporting my Son who is going through recovery, I’m still driving him and I to appointments, I’m still playing with my grand children, I may not be working full time but have become domesticated around the house. I guess I’m saying most of the time I’m useful and when enjoying what I do I hardly notice the pain. Again you and your sister will have to decide and advocate accordingly. Yes, There will probally be a day sooner or later; no time table set for me. It’s when the lord comes a calling. Even the Lord says he can help only those who are willing to help themsevles. To close my rambling, This site is here for you whether it’s support, advice, what worked for us or not, or to just simply vent. I really wish you and your sister the best as you turn on to this bumpy road that could or may not come back on the smooth highway.
God Bless You Both!
Jeff G.
P.S. She is 33 Years Young with lots of strenght going for her. If not to advance in my opinion give it a few whirls and definitely get a second opinion. Also a second opinion for a pathologist from having a tissue biopsy to very fy low grade vs high grade cc and HCC VS Adencarcinoma can make abig difference on treatment approach. We have proven one thing by sharing on this site is the Doctor can not predict your length of survivabilty. I was told 6 months -1 year a few times already but they haven’t taken my drivers license away yet. I’m still going down the the road in my old beat up chevy; I might out last my truck for that matter.jeffgMemberHi Serena, This is the first I have heard about Neem. I Have been doing a lot of searching and reading the last couple of days and it has got my attention. I will keep researching this apparently potent product. Don’t ever think your pulling at straws but think of it as as added knowledge for us all to evaluate. Thanks a bunch. If you hit on some ineresting sites I would love to read more about neem leaves and powders / oils.
Bless Ya !
Jeff G.
P.S. We must all remember 100% verification is needed as unfortunately some web sites are 100% product pushers with alot of untrue information and testimonials and false products. Must be careful. Internet scammers are world wide and they love the U.S. dollar. Just my safety tip for the day.jeffgMemberDear Youngsetson…. It is so hard for someone to suggest to you wheter chemo is the way to go or not. Your family and primarily your Mom has to make that decision. You need to take in account her age , health overall, what has she been through already, and mostly does she want quality of life vs quanity. At 80 years of age it would be a tough thing for myself personally to push or encourage chemo treatment. I would have to say Mom here is the cold hard facts and see what she wants to do. I personally knew a lovely lady who had CC at age 70 who decided not to do chemo and when she turned 79 the doctors and family encouraged her to start, as it had advanced so far. So for 9 years she live a pretty good life; pain medication and high protien diet. In fact I remember her at age 78 shooting basketball hoops with her great grandson of 3 yeatrs old. But once they started chemo it took it’s toll on her body very quickly just like it does on anyone. She did not make it to her 80th birthday. Everyone thought because she got around like a spring chicken she was tough enough to handle it. But as we all know or maybe should know ,as the years go by our bodies start working against us (old age). Your skin gets thinner, bones more brittle, muscles weaken, organs work harder. There are many books out there about Old age and Dying you might want to take a peak at before deciding. I don’t know if this post is of any help to you, but I would rather tell it like it is (my opinion and some facts of life) than not say anything at all. I ‘m sorry your Mom has to go through this at her age or any age. I wish you all God’s strength through the trying times ahead.
Jeff G.
P.S. Chemo in most cases is considered palliative treatment not a cure. There are exceptions and miracles do happen. Hope is always there! If >>>>>I WAS 80 YEARS OLD<<<<< and know what I know today as far as chemo goes I would not do chemo. I guess that's why we have the freedom of choice and have advance medical directives accomplished. God Bless!jeffgMemberDear Teresa, My deepest sympathy and prayers are coming your way. It saddens me greatly to hear of your Son’s passing so early in life. It sounds like he was a real ambitous, responsible and fun-loving Son who will be missed dearly I’m sure. God Bless you my Dear. I’m sure the light is shinning it’s brightest.
Jeff G.April 12, 2007 at 4:35 pm in reply to: FYI: Study Finds that Genes Gang Up to Help Cancer Spread #15582jeffgMemberThanks Sara…… 4 genes that gang up to cause cancer to spread; Wonder if they could publish the 87 that fight the spread. Maybe I could put together some home made brew. Ha!! just kidding thanks again for the link; shows things are still moving along and not going stale.
Jeff G.
P.S. The Healthy high fiber Pasta recipe sounds very similar tosome ingredients in the vegtable farm soup I tried for a while. I’ll have to whip up some of that gulosh.jeffgMemberHi Jliu168, My name is Jeff. I’m sorry to hear about your Dad. Your right this disease of CC doesn’t discriminate what -so-ever. It sounds like your right on top of treatments and procedures. Welcome to the site and if you read or see any thing of interest or would like further explanations don’t hesitate to ask. This site has been a God Send to many of us simple by sharing and answering helpful questions. Many of us have blogs and have also included our e-mails to converse directly. It is difficult to really advise on the type of treatment but we can certainly suggest some things from our individual experiences. A couple of things from me is steer the course and maintain a positive attitude to the best of your ability. “Attitude” is so Important! Stay away from the qaukery sites that claim miracle cures, Love and laugh, and review and watch for the new treatment releases and maybe consider trials down the road. I personally have made it pass the 8 year mark. I feel so arkward everytime I say that but people need to know you can live with this CC for years in a lot of cases. You said you have read a lot of posts, so you know this is not always the case and CC can be cruel and aggressive. There is a lot of little tid bits shared on this site that can be helpful when it comes to side effects also. Again, I’m sorry Your Dad was dragged on to this unfortunate roller coaster and one last thing is to be a strong advocate and don’t hesitate to speak your opinions with the Doctors. Just do your best and there is no room for guilt, CC is not our fault. Hope! … a Cure is around the corner…..
Jeff G.jeffgMemberHi Kris…. Sorry to hear about the problems your Husband had with Xeloda. The same thing happened to me. I started with 4,000 mg and really got knocked for a loop. Was reduced by 50% and I tolerated it very well. Need to drink lots of water with it (room temp) and I also took a couple of duccolux stool softener capsules for first 5 days. Kept things pretty regular. I just completed cycle 4 yesterday. It is hard on the platelets but they seem to keep climbing back enough to press on with treatment. I also found being outside in the sun to long will cause naseau and stomach cramping. Best to ya!
Jeff G.jeffgMemberFather’s Duaghter, I’m a Dad with the same disease with a Duaghter 28 years old and a Son of 26. I can’t forget my two grandchildren Brookie and PJ; age 2 and 5. I don’t really know what advice to offer you. I can say all the thoughts you have expressed in your post are feelings My children and I have lived with and continue to do so. I have CC on my entire liver, both of my lungs, and now a good possibility it has moved to my ribs and hip bones. I was first diagnosised March, 1999 and still continue one day at a time. I have had a couple operations, procedures, radiation, and currently on my 4th different regimen of chemotheraphy. You know I’ve been through the complete cycle of hope, anger, mad at the world, tears, no hope, and being scared. Not scared of dying but scared to leave all my loved ones as I feel I can still help and want to help them just a little more. I wasn’t prepared and I guess still not as far as leaving my loved ones. I have made peace with myself and with God now and know it is God’s will for me to leave this earth maybe sooner or maybe later. So far I have been given 8 years; Iv’e been able to relocate so my family is all together, I’ve been able to see both births of my grandchildren, I have just made another wedding aniversary (31 Years)….I at what time didn’t think I was going to see our 25th. You appear to have done some homework about this manipulating and cruel disease and know that it effects everyone differently as far as progression and treatments as well. I remembered when I told my family I did not want to go through this anymore and I also told them I was just a burden to them all. But it turns out I have been able to assist and help them all as well as them helping me through some tough times. You know I realized after a while this is “love” so surreal ! As far as respect goes ; I still expect respect from my children in the Dad way but I also respect there thoughts and suggestion as well or my Daddy tutoring would be all for not. In saying that, wisdom comes from experience and age. When it comes to end of life issues Daddy’s are on an even playing field and some times have difficulty dealing with their loved ones as they can’t rely on their wisdom; that gets a little scary. I can honestly say I haven’t worked through everything myself and don’t know if I ever will completely. My duaghter still cries and doesn’t understand she can’t just give me a lung or part of her liver. It just don’t work that way. My wife expresses trying something new and different but I refuse to put my family in a position where they would not have a roof over their heads. Again if I can’t do something or at least this one last thing, then my life may have ended sooner, who knows? My life Insurance may not be much but I can leave this world comfortably knowing it wasn’t sucked up by medical and hospital bills as I will pay ahead or as I go. One thing I can say is that love will conquer the power of fear and sadness. And You surely should not feel guilty about spending time with your Dad. I have issuses with the hovering over me. But we all came to an agreement that I want them to press on with their daily lives and if I need my space or when I need a little help I promised to let them know as I don’t want this CC keeping the family hostage. I could go tomorrow from a clot to the lungs or 3 months from now due to kidney failure, or maybe not until my 32nd Wedding Anniversary if this chemo keeps things moving slow. Just let your Dad make his choices, as time progresses (the Issue Time) Dad may say oh I’ll give it a whirl or maybe not. Although it will be extremely hard you don’t have to accept the no go, but respect and dignity comes in to play during these trying times. Some call it stubbornest but others understand and know Dads live the reality of life til the end. There is hope all over the world!!! Some of us fair better than others, We are all individuals with different results. Praying to God for guidance and talking with Family and friends and even professionals will help. But it is hard so hard no matter what. Giving hugs and letting someone know how much you love them is hard for some hardliner Dads, usually because they were never showed how.
God Bless Your Dad and your Family and You!!!Jeff G.
P.S. There are new treatments being worked on everyday. Hope is in the Air!jeffgMemberHi Kate…. All is going fine at the present. Will finish up cycle 4 of OXY and XOLEDA today. Went pretty good. Pain still in ribs but has been managable with Morphine 3 times daily. Got to wait until Friday the 19th for Bone scan. That will tell more and we can look in the cystal ball and decide if any additional radiation zapping will be needed. Otherwise, busy, busy, busy, just no more carrying 6’x8′ wooden fences around anymore. I feel healthy enough but I guess my body says otherwise. Ha! I’m just a little stubborn some would say. My wife leaves for Jolly Ole England tomorrow; I had to promise not to bend, lift, eat spicy foods, not to remodel the house, no yard work, the list goes on Hee! Hee! or she would not go. I also had to promise to be on web cam every night so she can check in and make sure I’m behaving myself. Ha! Enough of that, How is your Mom doing ? Did they figure out the flatulence problem yet? Well I guess I’ll go do some channel surfing beings I’ve been given my marching orders not to do anything else. Cheerio for Now!
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