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  • in reply to: My Introduction and Cholangiocarcinoma Story #96401
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    Spectator

    Thank you for joining the board, and the more people we get the better for understanding this condition.  I am not here to give advice or tell you the road you need to choose, but give you my experience.  I highly believe you should be your own advocate and if you are unable have a family member or someone close to you.  It is a tedious process and sometimes the person who is going through this does not have the energy to schedule appointments, research doctors, make decisions, or even make the effort to learn about this condition.

    CC is a very challenging condition and can differ for many as far as location, how aggressive, and how you will respond to a treatment.  If possible genetic testing is important so you know there are more options than the standard gem/cis.  My mom has the same which is perihilar CC, and it is tough from what I have experienced.  Have you had stent placements?

    She did not have treatment based on her individual unique health conditions.  I had a hard time with limited choices, so we just did symptom control.  Again, there is no easy  day and we take it day by day.  Check into clinical trials as that can open doors for many if something works.  The most important is finding a doctor who you feel comfortable with and is able to work with you.  Sometimes that can be a challenge as some are not very assuring and have a one track mind.  I recommend a few opinions if that is possible for you.  Again, look into what your body can tolerate as far as treatment and ask about success rate by the doctor giving examples.

    in reply to: MY CC is inoperable and incurable #96294
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    Spectator

    Hello,

    I am responding to the post I made earlier as there was confusion.  I am speaking of personal experience with my mom and not speaking for all. It’s important for people with CC to be aware of what is going on with other individuals experiences so we can determine what is going on in the oncology field with our disease.  We chose not to have chemo/radiation and that does not mean this does not work for other patients with CC, and currently the oncologist said in her case it will not work.  Again, this is our case and not necessarily for another CC patient.  The same oncologist said immunotherapy will not work for her.  That does sound negative and it is not my words, but the oncologist speaking.  I hope this provided clarification for the post above.  I want to be positive, but I must be honest and share with the forum what we are being told by oncologists.  I also stress for everyone to choose doctors you are comfortable with and willing to try everything at their disposal.  Immunotherapy, chemo/radiation has been a success for some CC patients.  You will find with this disease it is very individualized.

    in reply to: Pains #96293
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    Spectator

    Hello Aroha,

    Definitely speak to your medical team about pain management soon as possible.  According to my experience, CC can go months without pain, then sudden extreme pain.  When this happened the first time I knew that a pain management program would need to be in place immediately at home.  Our doctor prescribed a couple of pain medications to have readily available according to the level of pain: one being milder and the other for extreme pain.  Also, as stated above check status of CC and this disease causes extreme pain on the right side at the liver/bile duct area if that is what you are referring to.  My mom also chose not to have chemo/radiation and did have stent placements.  Again, I always have to stress this is our personal experience and choices, not giving suggestions for anyone to follow our decisions.  I learned from the forum that this has to always be stressed where we are coming from personal experience and knowledge, but not necessarily a choice for another individual to make.  Keep going…I know the difficulty as I have been through this for a year.  You are taking the steps necessary by learning and understanding this condition and asking questions.

    Thank you for sharing your experience.

    in reply to: MY CC is inoperable and incurable #96276
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    Spectator

    Hello Love4life,

    your concerns are well understood and it is true since one on this forum did get MDS from chemo. My mom did not get chemo and already had a case of chronic anemia and did progress. It’s tough and better treatments need to be offered or alternatives to chemo.

    From first hand experience and tough experience.

     

    in reply to: MY CC is inoperable and incurable #96257
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    Spectator

    Again just sharing the same, mom had no chemo or radiation and the tumor has now covered more space after a year. Chemo has no guarantees, but I’m sure it’s so individualized. We need more treatment options and should be the focus. There are still way too many limitations with oncologists and not many options. This is one year of tough experience.

    in reply to: Jaundice #96250
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    Stents are supposed to help but at the same time those Ercps are tough! Now I find out the tumor is covering more area and this is the third stent replacement in 5 weeks! No treatment will work and it’s hospice! The news is never good with CC that’s why it’s amazing for people who get some relief even for a short time. Who has perihilar CC?

    in reply to: MY CC is inoperable and incurable #96249
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    Spectator

    Yes I can relate. Inoperable mom and we did not choose chemo and there is nothing offered that will work. Now after a year I hear the hospice word again and so disappointing. We have a similar situation. Research and studies are slow and I was told immunotherapy doesn’t work. Who are the fortunate ones that it worked? They must not have had perihilar CC.

     

    in reply to: Jaundice #96234
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    Spectator

    Thanks for your response! She had to take Benadryl for the severe itching.  Also, after an ERCP about two weeks ago which relieved the bilirubin from a 23 to an 8, has gone back up to an 18!  We will again see the GI doctor on how to relieve the jaundice and the awful symptoms.  I would hate for there to be a discussion of a port to relieve the bile, but I will find out soon.  I can’t imagine the plastic stents getting clogged in only two weeks!  The GI doctor had cleared the sludge two weeks ago.  This is a never ending battle with this condition.  Amazing for all of you who have the stamina as family members and patients to face and fight this as it is exhausting.  Again, she is not receiving chemotherapy, as all of us know it is not the best treatment and can make certain patients worse.  My hope is to never have gem/cis as the standard of care.  Just my opinion, I know it has helped some patients on the board, but there are others also that it didn’t help.

    in reply to: MEK Inhibitor (NCT02042443) – Dad’s scan results #96225
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    Spectator

    I know this is an extreme late response and don’t know the status of this patient, but needed to express my dissatisfaction with this oncologist at USC.  I can add more detail if anyone is interested.

    in reply to: Jaundice #96224
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    Hi Molly,

    Thanks so much for your response.  My mom did get pancreatitis from only one ERCP, due to the lack of experience of the GI doctor.  She has not gotten it again after multiple ERCPs, the purpose being to replace the stents.  It is unfortunate that each procedure causes more inflammation, and there is no way around it.  Plastic stents are limited in time and can’t exceed 3 months, but some people need to get it changed in less than 3 months as was her case a few times.  This is due to the elevated bilirubin and jaundice which is an indicator for a stent replacement as there is an obstruction by either tumor, sludge, or stones.  The hard part as you mentioned is inflammation which is a big issue with CC in the first place, so you are adding more inflammation to an already bad condition.  Interesting you mentioned metal stents.  Did your doctor explain the differences between metal and plastic stents?  Did he/she mention if plastic or metal is used depending on the outlook of patient? I am getting mixed information on whether metal is used if the medical team assumes the patient has a shorter life span or if it is plastic.  I also learned that metal is hard to take out once inserted and can also migrate, so we are continuing plastic which is an option I totally dislike and I try to find a way around it, and I have not found a way to shrink the tumor.  This whole ordeal has always made me suspicious of these stent procedures if they make this condition worse.  I have gone back and forth with this dilemma for a year and realize it is the only way to allow bile to flow easily and relieve extreme jaundice and a dangerous level of bilirubin.  Have you also heard of PDT?  This procedure which is supposed to relieve pressure from tumor and therefore maybe not rely on stents?  I don’t know if this is new and whether patients have been successful.

    I am totally interested to understand how this one metal stent in your bile duct has been effective for a year.  That is amazing!  What is your average bilirubin level and which duct was it placed in?  What was the reasoning for the doctor to choose metal?

    Thanks again, and keep going!

    in reply to: Intro (finally) On My first anniversary…. #96218
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    Spectator

    Hello,
    I just have to give a brief reply as I deal with this tough cancer.

    I agree whether you have chemo or not, one still feels some kind of fatigue.  My mom could not have chemo and still has extreme fatigue, loss of appetite, and at times seems hopeless. The big barrier is those darn stents, but we can’t do without which if one day there can be some incredible treatment where this can be controlled and the patient can be off stents.  Those procedures are high risk also and sometimes not guaranteed, so it’s sometimes like hitting a roadblock.  It seems the more stent procedures the less effective the stents have become which is extremely disappointing.  It’s a tough journey, so it’s okay to express yourselves.  We can only hope for some effective treatment to control this nasty condition. Also with genetic testing an adequate tissue sample is needed to be qualified and we did not meet that test, so that is eliminated for now.  There is no way I would have her go through that risky biopsy again.  No matter what turn, everything is risky in this condition, but we continue to manage even though there is no cure. Also, needed to comment on oncologists, you have to see several as obviously there will be the negative ones or ones hard to communicate or you get the feeling they have nothing to offer so they don’t want to work with patient.

    in reply to: Julie ( Iowagirl) #96085
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    Oh my goodness!  She was a great support and I remember reading her posts and responding.  It’s always tough to read these posts.  All the best to her family.

    in reply to: Pain Management: What is working for you? #96016
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    Spectator

    Thanks hopeseeker, and thanks for sharing your story.  It’s important we come together and help on what works and doesn’t in our individual cases.  May you seek comfort during this time, and know that presence is the most important, as I also tell myself during tough times.

    in reply to: I’d Hoped Not to be Back Here …. #95971
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    Spectator

    That’s great! The tumor seems a small size.  You may be a rare case as chemo not impacting you a lot.  Lucky in that respect.  Without chemo some individuals already have lack of appetite and low energy.  How did you help your appetite?

    Thanks for sharing your story.

    in reply to: 6 year survivor #95970
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    Spectator

    Amazing to know people who have gone on for years especially with the intense treatment program.  Obviously not everyone is a candidate for surgery, and some individuals may have more sensitivity to a very strong treatment.  As we know CC is very individualized, so have to look at the age, medical history, and tolerance level of the person before any treatment program.

    Incredible news and thanks for sharing and keep going no matter how tough it is.

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