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  • in reply to: Hello from Houston, first post, sister with Cholangio #95235
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    This is only my opinion.
    I would think that chemo at this point would be too harsh and toxic for a body who is trying to fight and keep nutrients in the body and building immunity. Replenish her body with these nutrients through IVs, even if she needs blood transfusions or platelets, maybe this can be offered. Chemo compromises and lowers the immunity too much and can’t see how that will help. Definitely seek palliative care. Again, this is only my view. I know many choose to continue aggressive treatment.

    in reply to: Hello from Houston, first post, sister with Cholangio #95239
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    Hello Jonas,
    Thank you for joining the forum.
    Everyone can relate to your story. Shock, dissatisfaction, despair, sadness, and eventually having to stand up and face a multiple of medical professionals is just the nature of this condition.
    This was all new to me about 8 months ago when my mom got diagnosed and I was confronted with so much negativity from doctors that I had to withstand it in order to help her the best I can. As you will find on this site most individuals have unique situations in addition to the CC. My mom could not get any treatment due to a concurrent illness of chronic/severe anemia. I saw 4 oncologists, and though it to be unbelievable that the ones who wanted to offer the standard chemotherapy as shameful. I would not accept it, and eventual doctors who supported it as more harm to the patient than beneficial. Again, this is due to severe anemia a side effect of chemo without chemo.
    We have dealt with everything: severe weight loss, constant fatigue, low appetite and imagine having no options and the difficulty of acceptance and taking it day by day which is rough.

    The suggestions I can offer which are similar to above:

    1. Molecular Testing (try Foundation One)
    2. Have you tried Cannabis oil for pain? I heard a few patients say it’s successful
    3. Give those plant based drinks a try, better than Ensure which has high fructose syrup
    4 Get several opinions (I look back and if I took the advice of the first oncologist in my highly emotional state of sadness, my mom would be worse)
    5. Spend quality time together and hopefully she can enjoy some things

    I know firsthand how tough the journey can be and keep going.

    in reply to: Votrient (pazopanib) working wiht FGFR2 mutation #94960
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    That is a tough situation when the only standard treatment to this cancer is gem/cis. From day one I was extremely dissatisfied and disappointed that this was it, and of course the Xeloda/radiation. My mom could not undergo any of these treatments, so it was very tough to know that there is nothing offered. I think it’s very important to get the genetic testing which may offer hope of other treatments that studies have shown successful.

    in reply to: Here to support my brother in law #95210
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    Hello Laura,
    Welcome to our forum and it is crucial you get knowledgeable and seek a few opinions. You will find this to be a great support with abundant information. All of us came here to seek answers and be informed as this is a rare condition. Sometimes we tend to act quickly due to our shock and emotional state, but give yourself time to digest and understand this condition.
    I am sure more will share experiences of the Whipple procedure. You may also use our search function to look up the procedure.

    in reply to: Rejected by Mayo? #94913
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    Hello Everyone,
    Again it goes to personal decision and judging by each individual and what is going on in their body. I wonder if most if not all CC individuals have high inflammation in the body. My mom has very high inflammation which was determined by a blood test. This is when diet does play a factor, and we had to increase anti-inflammatory foods. That is not to say she will not crave certain foods she had pre-diagnosis and should not be deprived of it in order to maintain weight. It’s more of including these foods in the diet where it may have been lacking before. If one is sensitive and allergic to a food, one shouldn’t continue having it knowing it will aggravate the condition. This same with CC, there may be foods that may impact or aggravate it.

    Doctor’s don’t want to discuss or have the training or time to talk about nutrition or any other factors that can offer healing. They diagnose and treat with conventional medicine. This is something you have to research on your own, or perhaps get advice from a nutritionist or holistic health practitioner. I can also understand when individuals are at a point where there is progression and you are just trying to stimulate their appetite with anything they enjoy to eat. You can’t force certain foods if they don’t like it, and they must eat. If it is possible and the person is not reluctant, by all means include healthy foods.

    Does anyone have high inflammation with the CC?

    in reply to: Experience With Stents #95057
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    Thanks so much for sharing the side effects that may happen. So far she has not gotten a very high fever or infection. One of the ERCPs did cause pancreatitis and that was horrible, as it causes pain, then pain medication, and resulting in no appetite and food and more weight loss. I think that was more of the doctor’s poor performance and we surely don’t use her anymore.

    Basically both decisions, waiting longer for the ERCP can cause cholangitis and each time she has to get procedure can cause pancreatitis or the tumor to bleed. Risky regardless.

    As said, we take it day to day and enjoy the days and take it as it comes.

    in reply to: Rejected by Mayo? #94909
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    Taylor,
    Great! It is so important to make dietary modifications. My mom’s diet had to be reevaluated and changes made. There are times that it’s a challenge, especially looking for high calorie nutritious foods so she doesn’t lose too much weight. I recommended skinless chicken also, if she must eat it. I emphasized reduction of meat intake and more fish. Can she take fish oil? Sugar intake has been an issue and have been working on it as well.
    How is the cannabis oil working out?

    in reply to: Experience With Stents #95054
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    Thanks for your responses. At this point she is having an ERCP every three months to replace the plastic stents. I wanted to extend it to every four months, but the doctor thinks it is too risky. It’s that question as I have had from day one of this diagnosis, should I ? Shouldn’t I? Is this the best decision? What can be done? Numerous questions and decisions, once made, hope for the best.

    We briefly discussed metal stents, but he thought that is not the best way to go in the beginning, and maybe down the line. Those have complications such as harder to remove and they migrate also. We may open it up for discussion again. That risk on top of already a high risk condition as Marion said is necessary for obvious reasons to prevent the blockage. Another shocker is when the oncologist mentioned that one day the stent may not do its job. I didn’t understand, why not? Never ending!

    Both of you are amazing members and I am glad to contribute as well.

    in reply to: Hi From Puerto Rico #93702
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    That’s great you are keep fighting. I know gem/cis can have some tough side effects such as:
    anemia, low platelets, neutropenia, and increase in alkaline phosphatase. It is important that the patient gets breaks as needed or where they feel appropriate by stating it to their oncologist. Perhaps things will work out well where surgery is not necessary. Have you received molecular testing?

    in reply to: Palliative care is: Taking control of your life #95088
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    Thanks for the article Marion. Doctor’s should be upfront and not mislead any patient, even if the news is tough to deliver. In my journey doctors had no problem giving the bad information from the beginning. Such as: awful tumor, poor prognosis, surgery may be a cure, will eventually cause bad stomach pain if no chemo, 6 months with no treatment, bad location, chemo may not work
    Yes it was difficult to endure this information, and chemotherapy was not an option for our case. The only option we had is palliative care, and part of this care was for family to implement it. As we have said on this site, palliative care must be offered from the beginning of a patient’s care.

    in reply to: First time posting #94824
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    Linda,
    That is a good decision obviously if the chemo at some point doesn’t work you don’t continue, especially if quality of life is a huge issue. Everyone should get tissue tested as Marion has stated to determine molecular alterations, with hopes of a target therapy that has success for that particular change. We have to keep trying and most important work through the symptoms or seek palliative care. Did you read our latest posts on Keytruda? Again, something worth to be familiar and varies from patient to patient.

    in reply to: Carcinoma of unknown primary #95157
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    Pecan,
    Just like Marion has stated, different emotions will visit you and difficult decisions made. I highly believe in quality of life. There was the moment of fear and sadness which you will realize needs to be faced and give yourself the will, strength, and hope to give her support. The most important thing you can do is help her, no matter how tough it is at times. Think about her home care also by supporting in palliative care to help her symptoms of fatigue and if she can’t sleep. Also, implement a good nutrition program and emotional support. Chemo is a personal choice. Only from my experience, we had to turn away from it as my mom has a chronic anemia which the side effects would have been too harsh for her body. In this case there was no option. So you can see how each CC patient is different.

    Please keep us posted and know we are all in this together.

    in reply to: Walking The Road #95179
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    Thank you for sharing your story and joining our forum Tilly. It takes determination and courage. I remember when I found this forum, and was happy to know there was a population going through the same. I took the plunge and joined at a time when all this information was new to me. I didn’t even know we had bile ducts, as you can see knowledge from step one. I went through the same emotions as everyone, panic, sadness, worry, hopeless, and kept coming across poor statistics and interacting with some doctors was not favorable. I had to swim through the muddy waters of the unknown.

    What I have learned so far, which is based on my mom’s individual case and having to go with my beliefs.
    I believe the cause of CC is a high inflammatory state.
    The standard chemo of gem/cis does not work for everyone and with the major side effects can make certain patients like my mom who has chronic anemia worse. (we had to turn down chemo)
    Need more immunotherapy treatments, and patients should be requested a molecular test from the beginning not when the condition gets worse.
    Unfortunately oncologists are extremely limited with what they can suggest and this needs to change.

    This is just a brief overview of my experience, and I understand how difficult this condition is as I continue this journey. It was rough at the beginning of diagnosis, and I had to get it together and help, even if it’s just to control symptoms.

    Working together in this group ,we can and will see changes.

    in reply to: Carcinoma of unknown primary #95152
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    Pecangirl,
    Thank you for sharing on our forum. This is a great place for support, and I was in the same place when my mom was diagnosed. It was hard to accept and understand. Even if it is extremely difficult, get several opinions from oncologists and treatment plans, and have hope. Take it one day at a time and no one can predict the days or months of anyone. How is she feeling now? What chemo regimen will they use? Look into palliative care right away, and you can use the search function on our site.

    It’s a tough road, but the most important is you are present to offer emotional support and care.

    in reply to: ” Sally Toad” #93221
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    Michelle,
    Wow! What a journey and warrior, and you don’t give up and you make the decision based on your needs and not always to the advice of a doctor. You seem to have a positive outlook which helps. That’s the unfortunate side effects of chemo the lower RBC and WBC and platelets which makes it tough for the body, and should be stopped as this can do more harm than good. You seemed to get the breaks as needed. I can’t wait for the day when gem/cis is not the standard treatment and there are other options where the patient doesn’t have to wait and can make the choice from the first appointment.

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