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I am so pleased that your mom may have an opportunity for surgery and a great recovery. It is very scary and say all the things that are on your mind before surgery and then trust that she will come out just fine. Don’t miss the opportunity to say how much you love and appreciate each other, but then trust that we are not in control – God is. I pray for a successful surgery for your mum and that her recovery will be smooth and she will have many, many more years to celebrate her life.
Dear Isselure – I agree with others who have suggested having hospice prescribe and deliver liquid meds that can be put in the cheek or under the tongue. They work really well. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Blessings, Susan
Dear Megin – We all grieve losses and right now your mom being sick is a loss of the vibrant, loving person you call Mom. Don’t feel that you are being selfish. It is ok to vent your feelings and get them out (It gets really yucky if they stay inside.) Your mom is so young that it seems particularly unfair for her to be sick. The only thing I can say is that when you cherish each moment, make more memories, and hold each other close, you get the best of each other. I am so sorry for your pain. Please accept virtual hugs coming to you. Blessings, Susan
I am looking forward to posting the CC walk that my daughter’s employer is sponsoring in June. I will get the details to you. The more we can raise awareness, the better our chances for getting research, money, and a cure.
Dear MaryJo – Looking forward to hearing more about your progress. If the chemo has helped, perhaps you’ll go through another cycle. Has surgery ever been an option for you? Are you being treated where they know CC very well? Blessings, Susan
Dear MaryJo – My husband also did well on smoothies with protein. Rest as much as you need to. It will help your body rebuild. Go easy on yourself. Cherish the moments. Blessings, Susan
Dear Nick – I hope you find answers on our site and we are pleased to welcome you to our supportive family, although sorry for the circumstances that bring you to us. I always appreciate a naturalistic approach but have no information to offer. May you find peace, hope, support and answers. Blessings, Susan
Stacey – May your heart find peace in knowing that your dad is not in pain and he no longer suffers. He now knows a life beyond our comprehension and for that we celebrate. We grieve the loss of your dad, but celebrate the life you were honored to share with him. May you experience a peace beyond your imagination and you traverse the days, weeks, months and years ahead with memories to hold you close. Blessings, Susan
Welcome Charlet – Losing your grandfather is a big loss and very hard when you see how much it hurts your dad and your other family members, as well as dealing with the loss for yourself. Writing this essay is good therapy for you too. We are all frustrated that CC often gets diagnosed too late for effective treatment, although I guess this is expected due to the rarity of there is so little money spent on research and development. I hope your journey helps you learn a lot and make an impact on this disease. I pray you and your family find comfort in your memories of your grandfather. Blessings, Susan
Dear Vanessa –
I am so sorry about your grandfather’s diagnosis. I can only offer this – my husband had cc from the pancreatic duct and he did opt for chemo and he had NO ill effects from his particular cocktail. Everyone reacts differently, but chemo does not always make someone sick or lose their hair or diminish their quality of life. My husband’s quality of life was better on chemo than without. You have now become a member of our family and we welcome you to this site at any time. Please vent, ask questions, share your grandpa’s progress, whatever you need. Attitude is the best medicine. Blessings, Susan
Dear Stacey –
So glad to hear that you are finally experiencing some relief with hospice. They were a godsend to us as well. What a blessing that your dad is resting comfortably and not fighting with the pain.
Blessings,
SusanDear Ashley – As you spend time together and your mom gets over this latest condition and builds her strength, as a family, you will be able to support her in whatever decision she makes. I wanted you to know that my husband did not have a terrible passing either. He was not in pain, he went to sleep, went into a coma, held on for our son to get here and passed peacefully into the arms of Jesus. He did have pain meds and was in the coma for 23 hours. It was all peaceful. My heart is with you as you hold on to one another. Blessings, Susan
Dear Lisa – You are strong and courageous. You have a lot to live for and you are making the choices as you go. Great job managing this illness. I agree with you that God is in control and you have some wonderful time to love and enjoy your family. Attitude is your great friend – continue to hang on to that great attitude, combined with your strength that is provided by your Heavenly Father. We do cheer you on and applaud you making the choices that are best for you. Blessings, Susan
Dear Ken – Nothing compares to the loss of a child. I am so sorry that Rick went on before you, however, now that he has gone before you, he has blazed the trail. I am sure nothing would make him happier than to know that by his love and his example, he blazes a trail for you to follow so that you will be reunited again one day. The pain of the days ahead is awful, but I know that it is lessened by our faith and dependence on God. I am walking this walk myself and I assure you that it has been better because of my faith. I pray that this strengthens and carries you as well through the difficult days ahead. Be encouraged by the son you raised, the life he lead, and the example he set for others. Be in peace. Blessings, Susan
