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Lainy
I am thinking of you, and keeping you in my prayers. I am praying for peace and serenity to envelope you and Teddy, and am sending you a huge hug.
lots of love
Michelle
Hi Pam
This sounds exactly like my dad in terms of no swallowing ability and no food or water at the end. You are doing great and you sound calm, we also used a syringe to get morphine in, 1ml at a time. Hospice are normally spot on with their insight. You are a wonderful daughter and your dad, i know is so happy that you and your sisiter are able to be with him. All I can say, is that I am with you in spirit, and we are all here for you.
Take good care and stay as strong and serene as you are.
Lots of love and hugs
Michelle
Hi Kimmie
It seems like we are travelling a similar path, so alike and united in our grief, thanks for starting this thread, i am also needing some insight.
I know that my father is in a better place, but i miss him so much. My brother dreamt of him the other night, and he related to me about how wonderful it was to see him.
I just wish i could dream of him, also.
I have started lighting a candle for him in my classroom and have his picture on my computer in classroom.
I am thinking of you, across the miles.
Love
Michelle
Hi Pam
We have not heard from you in a while, I am thinking of you and your dad,
with love and strength
Michelle
Hi Andie and Jen
Just a short note to say, I am thinking of you over this time, stay strong.
With love
Michelle
Hi Kimmie
I have been meaning to post earlier but …..I empathise with everything you are going through. My dad passed on 4th of October, and for me it just does not seem real. I cannot believe that he is not lying in the bed in my mom’s room, and i know that he was very sick and it was not fair on him to stay but i can’t seem to get to grips with needing to feel him, see him, touch him, hold him.
I am also 40 with 2 boys aged 3 and 7, I have also been willing dad to come to me in my dreams and nothing has happened! My boys on the other hand have had lovely dreams of pa, my dad playing with them, not looking sick and full of life. In the week before he died I made him promise that he would come back to me to tell me that he is ok, and that is what i want – just want this confirmation that he is ok?
This whole “normal” life thing also gets me, i want to shout at everyone – DO YOU KNOW THAT MY FATHER DIED! so , sorry i can’t come to book club, i really don’t want to be at school, i just want to be!!!
Sorry, your rant became my rant and rave!!! I just know how you are feeling because i feel the same way.
Lots of love
Michelle
Hey Lainy
Great to hear that the Colonoscopy went well. My dad’s patron saint was also St Anthony and we prayed through St Anthony all the time. And my dad’s name is Anthony, so I will be continuing my prayers for Teddy through St Anthony. I am holding you and Teddy close in my heart and my prayers.
Lots of love
Michelle
Dear Seabee
I am so sorry for the passing of your lovely wife and I thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story with us. I take such comfort from your words as i lost my dad to CC on the 4th of October 2010.
My deepest sympathy to you and your family – you all are in my thoughts and prayers.
With love and strength
Michelle
Hi Nidhi
I am so sorry for the loss of your dearest mom, my dad passed just 2 days before on the 4th of October, i understand how difficult this is – my thoughts and prayers are with you all, give your girls a big hug from me, i also have 2 boys who are a similar age.
This is a tough journey, we will get through it together.
I wish you peace and love and strength.
xx
Michelle
Hi Kris and Hans and family
I am thinking of you, stay strong, lovely Kris, my prayers are with you all.
With lots of love and hugs
Michelle
Thank you for the updates,dearest lainy i am walking this with you. Am thinking of you, lots of love
MichelleHi Andie
Take it day by day….and when the time comes, then we deal with it together, i also stressed about how the end would be, Dad did go quietly in his sleep, he was at home to the end, in his own bed ….i know how you feel, stay strong, we are here for you. You are doing all that you can, this knowledge will sustain you…..
lots of love
Michelle
