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  • in reply to: One step back, yet again! Chemo cancelled #39181
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    Andie: When my husband Tom was diagnosed with his inoperable tumor in late Nov ’09 he had just started turning yellow. The first place it is noticable is in the eyes. The whites of the eye turn yellow before anything else. At one point his bilirubin level was 24.7. Tom was lucky in the aspect that he had no itching and no brain confusion. They wanted to get a internal stent into the liver, but to date that has not been possible, so instead he has an external drain to drain off the bile that can’t get past the tumor.

    You are correct, that this CC is like a roller coaster ride. You will have many hills to climb and many twists and turns in this journey.

    You should ask for a CTscan or an MRI and that should show if there is a tumor blocking the bile duct. Then perhaps an ERCP is in order to see if they can place a stent which would then allow the bile to flow into the intestine. That should help lower the bilirubin level.

    You may also want to seek a 2nd opinon if you are not getting the answers you seek.

    Go with God, and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret (My husband and Cholangiocarcinoma)

    in reply to: What to do… #39201
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    Welcome to the CC family. 2nd opinoins are NEVER a waste of time. I would not hesitate to get a referral to Mayo Clinic. They are well versed in CC. If you have the fund to travel there and it’s in network for you, then by all means do it!

    Good luck and prayers are coming your husband’s way from Wisconsin.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer!
    Margaret (My husband and cholangiocarcinoma)

    in reply to: Insurance denies newest chemo treatment #39157
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    Rick:

    Tom has been on the pill form of Xeloda and has had no side effects….no hair loss and he tolerated it very well….5 pills in the am and 5 pills in the pm. So far it has worked well for him. The nice thing is that he didn’t have to travel to take chemo. Each prescription was about $1,500 so it’s substantially less than the drug your doctor was thinking about.

    As far as insurance companies go, they will deny any drug that is considered ‘experimental’ and from the sounds of it, there simply is not enough data with this drug and that may be why the insurance is denying it…most likely they are denying it as ‘experimental’.

    As I do in my daily job as a customer service rep for a large health insurance company, you ALWAYS have the right to appeal any decision. But if they are denying it as expermental, an appeal will not be approved UNTIL the drug has been approved by the FDA, etc…

    Whatever the choice, I’m keeping my fingers crossed for you and sending loads of prayers your way.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34572
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    Well, Tom had his procedure at Mayo today and although it was well over 2 hours in surgery, the stent was again a no go. Apparently the tumor has destroyed that particular bile duct, however on the flip side, there are two bile ducts that are getting bile through to his intestines…(which explains why he is only collection about 100ML of bile in the bag in a 24 hour period). During the CTscan when they injected the dye, the doc could clearly see the dye going into the intestines via these two bile ducts. However the dye only goes as far as the tumor in the blocked bile duct and apparently since the blood vessel is right there they don’t want to force the wire through….internal bleeding with that main blood vessel would not be a good thing. So for what it’s worth, we tried and failed…but now we will never have to wonder about the outcome (If we hadn’t tried)….

    Tom will have the external drain bag for the rest of his life. In the scheme of things however, this is not the end of the world. Yes, it is a pain to have to have it, but it’s not as bad as a clostomey (sp) bag but it allows him to not be yellow and it keeps his bilirubin level almost normal.

    So he and I have accepted it and will go forward for as long as we have together. It may be 2 months or 10 years, but I consider myself very blessed to have had the opportunity to have this man in my life as my husband. Sometimes one has to be thankful for what they have.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34569
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    We are headed to Mayo Clinic tomorrow morning…this is our last try at letting the doc’s try to get Tom’s stent internalized. If they fail this time then “It is what it is” and we will just have to get a good supply of Tegaderm Film, 4×4 gauze pads and 10CC flushes and some antibacterial ointment…I’m praying for the internalized stent cause that would just make Tom so happy to NOT have that drain bag following him everywhere.

    In the event that they are unsuccessful then at least we’ll know that the mayo doc did all that he could and that we gave it our best shot. And like I told Tom, “If the external drain keeps you fairly healthy and not looking so yellow, then we will just have to deal with it”

    Looking forward to also traveling to Lake Waubeesee to meet Lainy and Teddy in late July.

    Toss a few prayers up to that big man above for Tom.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret and Tom

    in reply to: Loosing that fighting feeling! #39032
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    Rick:

    Take a deep breath, let it out slowly, take it one day at a time and go forward, make some plans for next week, next month, next year. Don’t stop living and planning for the future and above all else don’t give up. Attitude and being positive goes a long way in beating or delaying the ‘gates of heaven’.

    My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: Not a good day #38770
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    Andie…tears of hope and joy are ALWAYS good….I’m glad the doc agreed on the absence of the expiration date!

    Margaret

    in reply to: I am so frustrated with this DRAIN! #38940
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    Kristin – if you email me your home address, I have some ‘extra long’ tegaderm film that I am willing to mail to you to try it out over your bandages! The VA (Veterans Administration) sent about 10 packages of this oversized Tegaderm Film and we have not used it nor do we plan to cause they finally got the correct size sent to us (and we have plenty)! You could cut this oversized film into three pieces or just cut in half and use it over the drain site. This would work well over the ‘depends’ bandages or over the gauze.

    I know it is very expensive and your insurance may not even cover it for you, but this did not cost us anything, so pop me an email. My email address is 77rusticacres@bayland.net

    And please also let me know when you will be in Wisconsin. I would love to meet you, Darla, Lainy and Teddy when / if you are all in Wisconsin. Milwaukee is about 1 1/2 hours from home, so I have no problem taking a road trip. We have been there so often in the past two years that I can just put my car on autopilot and it would find the way!

    And if Tom is extra special nice, I’d even bring him along …. he would love to meet Teddy!

    Go with God,
    Margaret

    in reply to: Not a good day #38763
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    Andie:
    Welcome! All I can say is when a doctor comes up with a term for life, such as 6 months (as in my husband’s case) or 11 months as in your dad’s case, it generally means that they really don’t have a clue! My husband Tom’s ‘old’ oncologist told us that radiation and chemo were not an option and that he should just go home and get his life in order.

    Needless to say, we did not accept that and sought 2nd, 3rd and 4th opinoins. Although each opinoin agreed that his new tumor was inoperable because of it’s location, the last three disagreed with the no radiation and no chemo. Tom has had 28 radiation treatments and three rounds of chemo and his new tumor is dead, his tumor markers have come down drastically, as has all of his other numbers including the Alk Phosphate level that was 10 times elevated. Tom is now in his 7th month and still going strong! He does have an external drain bag to drain the excess bile from his system and to keep his bilirubin level within normal range (because the ‘dead’ tumor is still blocking the bile duct) but other than that he is doing almost all the things he did previously.

    I’d bet that if you pulled your dad’s pants down and checked his butt you would NOT see an expiration date stamped there! Only God knows when our check out time is. The doctors are only ‘practicing’ medicine!

    So, my advice to your dad is to continue living his life as normally as he possibily can, never take no for an answer but instead ask what else can we try? Think outside the box, do your research, ask all the questions that you can, get second opinoins. Make sure that you have a doctor who has experience with CC. Many if not most doctors have never encountered CC before therefore they do NOT know how to treat it or what to expect! The first doctor that wanted to do Tom’s liver resection had never encountered CC before, and had only done about 20 resections for other types of liver cancer. Needless to say we found a doctor who had done hundreds of liver resections and allowed her to preform the surgery.

    If surgery is not an option, then you need to be discussing what others options there are.

    Go with God, and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret (My husband and Cholangiocarcinoma)

    in reply to: I’m new here. Hi Everyone. #38850
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    Hi Marni:
    I don’t have much to offer on the vomiting since my husband Tom has not experienced that at all, even while on chemo.

    However, let me join the others in welcoming you to this site. It’s the best site that I have found on the internet for my search for some good knowledgable information on CC.

    I will keep your mom in my prayers.

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: I am so frustrated with this DRAIN! #38938
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    This post is for Beth O. Beth, actually bile should have almost no smell. If the bile is starting to smell, that means an infection is starting. Tom had an external stent for 7 1/2 months after his initial resection and one of the things we had to watch out for was if the bile started to smell. (never happened) if anything the bile should have a slightly sweet smell. This past month with Tom’s now 6 month old external drain, the bile started to smell and it was putrid, and the first thing the doc did was a tube exchange and put him on Levaqin (antibotic) right away. Now the bile is back to it’s sweet smelling self.

    Margaret

    in reply to: What We Expected-Shocked to Hear It-Teddy #38960
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    Lainy and Teddy:

    So sorry to hear the news about ‘Our Miracle Man’, we will keep you both in our thoughts and prayers. No matter what decision Teddy makes on this, it will be the best decision for him.

    Go with God,
    Margaret

    in reply to: I am so frustrated with this DRAIN! #38932
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    Kristin:

    I’m very happy that you have decided to make the trip to Wisconsin to see your grandma! That is awesome. I agree, you can be ‘leaky’ here or there, it makes no difference, it is what it is!

    Tom is about 6ft, 117 lbs. Very skinny. But with the bile leaking out of the hole the doctor decided to go with the larger 12 guage tube. The extra holes (that the doctor modified himself) just allows for more bile to go through the tube and not follow down the outside of the tube which means bile leaking out of the wound in the side. Since they have done that Tom only has leakage when flushing the tube.

    I don’t know what your ‘size’ would have to do with the larger drain tube, but when they suggested it for Tom we were all for it, if it meant not having bile leak all over everything.

    Remember the bleach for getting bile out of clothes. I discovered that bleach would work one day by draining his bile into the sink and adding bleach (just to see what would happen) and wonder of wonders, it turned the bile into clear liquid! Therefore I knew that bleach would take the bile stains out of sheets, blankets, clothes! No more bile stains in this house.

    The home-made bandages made out of depends or diapers work well too. They absorb more than gauze pads! Sometimes you just have to be inventive!

    As a side note, it may be just a matter of time too for the ‘path’ that the drain tube takes to start to close up on the drain tube. (that never happened in Tom’s case) If/when it happens you will notice less and less leakage. (I’m hoping it happens soon, for your sake)

    Go luck, keep us posted and let me know how the new bandages work. Remember to build a slot in them so that the drain tube has a place to go. I always cut a large square then cut one slot down to about the center, taped all the edges, place that over the wound with the tube in the slot. Then tape it up!

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

    in reply to: Now with God #38915
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    Donna:

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Words cannot express what we feel when hearing that one of our Cholangiocarcinoma family members passes away from this dreadful cancer.

    Go with God.

    Margaret

    in reply to: I am so frustrated with this DRAIN! #38928
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    Kristin:

    My husband Tom had a lot of leakage with his drain tube at the onset. One of the main things is to keep the site as clean and as dry as possible. Tom’s interventional radman who initially inserted the drain was concerned about the leakage because bile can do a number on the skin. After about 6 weeks, he went to a larger drain tube and added additional holes to the part of the drain tube that was in the liver. (I think he said the tube he now has in is a number 12 tube) Yes, it is a 12 gauge drain tube.

    Since then the only ‘drainage’ that we have is when I flush the tube (1 or 2 times a day) otherwise the site stays dry. Normally we flush it 1x a day unless he starts getting sludge in the bag, then we flush it 2x a day.

    Yes, changing the dressing is a chore, but I look at it this way, Tom is still here with me, and although he hates the drain bag (probably as much as you do) it’s a small price to pay to still have him here. I’m certain that your loved ones feel the same.

    As for the bile ruining clothes, all I can say is to invest in some white t-shirts. And if the bile gets on the t-shirt, bleach takes it out instantly! Pour bleach on the stain, the bile is gone, then wash the T shirt.

    Before we got tegadermfilm, we used depends as bandages. We cut pieces to go over the wound, with a slit in them for the tube, taped the edges good then taped it over the site with paper tape or what ever kind of tape you have. The plastic from the outside of the depends stopped the bile from leaking all over his clothes and all over the bed. (It worked!) And if you don’t have any depends, a baby diaper will do the same thing.

    Or see if you can get some Tegadermfilm. It’s expensive, but you put your gauze on, I use one 4×4 folded in half and half again under the tube up next to the stitches (bottom side of the tube) then take another 4×4, folded in half and in half again and place that over the top of the tube and stitches, making sure you cover the wound, then place the tegadermfilm over that. In your case, you may have to use more gauze unless you can convince your interventional radman to exchange the tube for a larger gauge tube, modified with more drain holes as they did in toms case. (Ask them to do that!)

    Tom has had the external drain tube since december and so far his doctors are very pleased with the look of the wound and at how clean the site is, no damage to the skin at all.

    Good luck Kristin. And I think you need to take that trip to Wisconsin to see Grandma. Where does she live?

    Go with God and KEEP KICKIN’ THAT cancer.

    Margaret

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