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Your local hairdresser should be able to get you a weekly rinse that would cover the white and blend with the ends. My Mom gets one that is done weekly when she gets her shampoo. Just ask, buy the bottle or half a bottle and go for it…it washes in and washes out at the next shampoo.
My Mom takes Marinol and that helps her nausea. We were on twice daily, but side effects were yuck. Once daily is enough. Wish I could help more.
Hang in there and talk, talk, talk to the Dr and nurses-question everything because you are stuck in a learning situation that you probably don’t know anything about. Keep the faith and the fight going, we are all in the same boat paddling like crazy trying to make sense of the disease and the proper treatment for our loved ones.
Lainy, You are such a rock for all of us. We only wish the best for you and Teddy. Thank you for the discussion on patches. Mom has been refusing all medication because she received a recall notice for one of her old pain meds and now she is scared of all medication! The nurse comes tomorrow and I hope she will have suggestions for us. My prayers are for the patient AND his caregiver.
Pauline, The holidays can be hard if you have lost a loved one. I have not lost a spouse, but a parent and each holiday brings a sadness. Time makes the sadness diminish, but the loved one is never forgotten. For me busy is best…so I have continued to work and babysit my grandchildren. I have taken classes at the local community college and have taken dreamed of vacations and tried to enjoy all of the things I had looked forward to. I now have my remaining parent to care for (cc and dementia) so part of my life is on hold for the moment while I assume the duty of caregiver. I read, do crafts, and housekeep for the two of us and really stay busy so there is not time for blues to creep in. I hope this has been helpful in your quest for peace and happiness now.
Calida, Thank you for sharing and reminding us of the things to be thankful for. I hope my memories will be as pleasant.
Yea Harmony, You said it like it is! That is an awesome statement from beginning to end. I loved the no expiration date on the bottom of our feet…not on mine either. I also think as individuals we control our thoughts (power of positive thinking) and by following the Dr orders within reason, knowing our bodies, and support of our family.
Each day is a “new” day and we can start it with a positive attitude and enjoy the life given to us or we can all put on “vinegar” faces and show our sour attitudes.
Everyone, We all deal…good, bad, whatever caretakers take the situation on and DO! Sometimes in retrospect, I see where I would have done differently and sometimes I say to myself, “Why did you do that?” and sometimes I just smile and get on my computer and go to the cc website and read. Sometimes I go on the computer and I have a special diary that I write all of the funny or awkward things that have happened and I have given the diary the name of “A Funny Thing Happened on the Way to Heaven”. I go back and read some of the crazy, funny, aggravating things that have happened and I laugh or cry and it gives me a release and it NEVER talks back or judges me or gets angry at my mistakes. I think it is quite therapy I need. You might want to try it. I hope this helps someone.
julie, I am a new member so I really don’t have answers, but if you read the posts on this site you will learn so much about this type of cancer. I have just recently started posting and I have little experience, but the people who post here have medical treatment and drug treatment experience. They are wonderful at listening, suggestions, and encouragement. Take care and keep posting and reading.
Codergirl, I too am thankful for the site and for the wonderful people who post. I am my Mom’s caretaker, and I felt like it was two against the world of cancer. We were battling hard and getting frustrated by the lack of knowledge and treatment options, until I found these sharing-caring people. I don’t think anyone has ever had a negative post and always positive attitudes…it really does feel like an extension of my family. Thanks everyone.
Sharimay, This site will provide information and support. Just use it! The only way you will receive the support and knowledge is to keep visiting and reading. I think it helps to know you are not alone in your battle. Take care. G
Varum, I am so sorry for your and your family’s loss. It is always sad to hear of the death of a parent, but a Mum seems especially sad. Take care.
Linda, Sorry about Mayo and hubby’s lack of support. Maybe he is scared and can’t express himself without a lot emotion that he feels will make him appear “weak”. Guys have to be so macho.
Dr’s don’t know everything…they just “practice” medicine, some better than others. They gave Mom 1 year and another gave her three months. Ha! That was 15 months ago and we don’t plan on giving up or in any time soon.
LIVE your life. LOVE every minute. ENJOY the good memories and make many more! G
Welcome, and I am so glad you found us. Marinol works for my Mom. It is used once daily at this time, we had started twice daily but had to quit due to side affects. Lots of luck! My Mom has elected no preventive care and it is hard to accept, but I respect her choice. She is doing well and has had some great days. When you need Hospice, you will know.
Keep reading the posts, there is so much information and you will always need to know more. Take care. G
