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David,
I am sorry for your news. I had my reoccurance 2 years after my surgery so I know the feeling. I am almost 2 years on after that and though not as healthy as I would like, I still think there is more time and fun to be had.I like your attitude of it being a partnership. I think that is the only way to go. I truly believe that taking an active part in your treatment gives you a longer and better quality of life. IT is taking ownership of your cancer instead of the cancer taking ownership of you.
Good luck on your treatment whether you decide on the clinical trial or gem/cis.
Kris
Have a wonderful time. I wish I could go south! When I lived in South Carolina, I thought I loved snow. Now that I get it up to my hips for months at a time, I can say I hate snow. Will it still be warm enough to swim in the ocean? Take care and let us know when you get there safely.
Kris
Kathy,
I put on weight with gem/cis…something like 20 pounds. Gotta love those steroids!Good luck on your last cycle and cant wait till you get the results.
Kris
Lainy,
Let me toss out an idea. I have complete back pain, but I have been scanned and x rayed to death and they see nothing in my bones. It was decided that it is a result of too much time in bed. If Teddy is sleeping alot, this might be the problem. For my pain, Hans rubs my back nightly (and sometimes during the day). He has to be gentle because it REALLY hurts. Those rubs with the morphine seen to ease the pain.And Lainy, I think you are amazing. I wish I could meet you in real life and give you the biggest, warmest hug.
Kris
Your dad sounds like a tough cookie. I am so glad that everyone is respecting his wishes.
I hope they get the pain under control so his good times outweigh the bad.
Thinking of you and your family.
KRis
Beth,
Wow, when it rains….Hope the surgeon gets the information and answers he wants and that a good solution is found.
Keeping your family in my thoughts.
Kris
Isisman,
PLEASE remember to be kind to yourself. You are right, perhaps the pain can not be shared for it is in your heart and your home. But like your last sentence says YOU are not alone.You will find your way out of the darkness and pain for the simple fact you must. You have children that need you. But you will be amazed by the help you will get if you let people.
We dont have the answers or the cure to take away the pain or a wand to make everything right. We only have an ear to listen, extra strength to spare and the experience that though the pain will never completely disappear it will lessen. Grief takes many forms and there is no time line. You will find the strength.
Kris
That is wonderful news Mary. I am so glad to hear it. I guess that truck has a little more life in it. Glad you got such wonderful news and tom got back safely.
Kris
WEcome to the site. I wish your dad good luck in his upcoming battle. Let us know how it goes and remember we are a wonderful resource if you have questions or just need support.
Kris
Thanks for the sugar tip. If I hiccup too long, I vomit so having something quick and easy with something we keep in our cabinets is great.
Kris
