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  • in reply to: I need some suggestions please. #34825
    lainy
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    Stan, I am sorry as this may not be the answer you are looking for. Grab all your test results and head for another doctor. If you feel he is not interested I would dash to another. Listen to your gut…it’s usually right.

    in reply to: ERCP Monday #34337
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    Hi Lisa, I am crossing everything I can cross to hear a good result!

    in reply to: Can Cyberknife eliminate tumors? Petscan? #34810
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    Too, too bad. Teddy could not be here without it!

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34413
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    Margaret, all good news. I think giving your hair to Locks of Love or etc. is such a commendable thing to do, love your generosity. You guys keep Kickin and we are going to meet in July. That is our goal. We will all have our Cancer dance at that time!!

    in reply to: The color of urine #34832
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    Hey Kris, you are truly a pee pee Goddess!

    in reply to: No More Pain #34869
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    To the Family of Jenoise: We are so very sorry to hear of your sad journey. Jenoise is now at peace and free from pain. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you.
    Are you by chance in Chandler AZ? We live in Sun Lakes.

    We are sending these words of comfort to you:

    To my dearest family, some things I’d like to say.
    But first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
    I’m writing this from Heaven.
    Here I dwell with God above.
    Here, there’s no more tears of sadness;
    here is just eternal love.
    Please do not be unhappy just because I’m out of sight.
    Remember that I am with you every morning, noon and night.
    That day I had to leave you
    when my life on earth was through.
    God picked me up and hugged me
    and said, “I welcome you.
    It’s good to have you back again,
    you were missed while you were gone.
    As for your dearest family,
    they’ll be here later on.
    God gave me a list of things,
    that he wished for me to do.
    And foremost on the list,
    was to watch and care for you.
    And when you lie in bed at night,
    the day’s chores put to flight.
    God and I are closest to you…
    in the middle of the night.
    When you think of my life on earth,
    and all those loving years.
    Because you are only human,
    they are bound to bring you tears.
    But do not be afraid to cry:
    it does relieve the pain.
    Remember there would be no flowers,
    unless there was some rain.
    One thing is for certain, through my life on earth is over.
    I’m closer to you now, than I ever was before.
    There are many rocky roads ahead of you
    and many hills to climb;
    Together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
    And now I am contented….
    that my life was worthwhile.
    Knowing as I passed along the way
    I made somebody smile.
    When you’re walking down the street
    and you’ve got me on your mind;
    I’m walking in your footsteps
    only half a step behind.
    And when it’s time for you to go….
    from that body to be free.
    Remember you’re not going…
    your coming home to me.

    in reply to: Can Cyberknife eliminate tumors? Petscan? #34808
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    Marion, did they say why the trial of cyber knife was halted at UCSF.

    Adam, my husband, Teddy had cyber knife a year ago. His was not on the liver but where his duodenum used to be. The tumor must be under 7cm and his was 7cm. He had 25 radiation treatments to shrink it to 6cm and then the cyber knife. It is amazing. Only 3 treatments and he was done. I am not good at medical terms but first you get 4 little gold “rods” injected into the area to “mark” the tumor and guide the laser. Then this laser only “zaps” exactly where that tumor is and does not affect any other area. Once the tumor is hit with the laser it begins to die immediately. It will stop growing and in a year appears to be like a piece of shriveled up ash. Not sure if it disappears totally but it doesn’t matter, it will not affect anything else. Teddy now has 2 very small tumors one near a kidney and one outside the liver. They are so small nothing can be done yet and in fact seem to be shrinking.
    Also we just went through the question of PET vs MRI. a PET Scan lights up any tiny or large cancer area. An MRI “defines” it. If you go to our search engine at the top of the page and type in anything you are questioning you will get all the posts up that pertain to that subject. I have posted a ton on cyber knife.
    My humble opinion is that Doctors who put down cyber knife probably don’t know enough about it. Believe it or not we have found doctors who had never heard of it! Perhaps a second opinion is in order. Curious, but have they mentioned scar tissue as causing the blockage? Scar tissue does not show on a PET but shows on an MRI. You can look up my posts under “lainy”.

    in reply to: Off to Orlando GI ASCO #34815
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    Oh, Marion, so close yet so far!!! I would have met you at the airport. Have a very safe and informative trip!

    in reply to: Newly diagnosed, had whipple, awaiting chemo #34763
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    Hey, Gerry. Just wanted to add that what happened to Teddy was rare. His actual surgery was not that bad for all that was done. He was sitting up that night and walked late the next day! Unbelievable. If it had not been for his set backs that were no ones fault, he would have been on the golf course earlier. I think part of it was due to the fact that the first Whipple was aborted after 4 hours and 3 weeks later he had the “real deal.’ I may have missed something but why are they waiting so long to do your surgery?
    I also want to add for anyone listening…..When I had my surgery Oct 1st, I asked for an epideral and that relieves you of any big discomfort for 24 hours or 48 hours, which is wonderful as you have a chance to garner a little strength. It does not hurt and well worth it.

    in reply to: Guidance – Bile Duct Cancer #34718
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    OneBigFamily: See, it’s as good as gold already! We have all learned that with CC you can count on nothing. But that is really entirely wrong as our one constant is Marion. She is always here and dang if she doesn’t always make sense out of a senseless situation. Just a little thanks Marion, you deserve it, lovely lady!

    in reply to: Cholangitis #34791
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    WOW, Betsy that is amazing, thanks. By the way I love your saying about not going to a Doctor who has no live plants in his office. What about a Caretaker (me) who can kill an artificial plant???? Hope you are feeling better!

    in reply to: Guidance – Bile Duct Cancer #34714
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    Hello ONEBIGFAMILY and welcome to our Big Family. Sorry you had to find us but so glad you came aboard. I don’t know where your location is but Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN is one of the very best. When a doctor announces that nothing can be done, that is when we get in to our Advocate fight mode and start our research. We do not give up until we are totally satisfied. If you can let us know where you are located I just know you will get some valuable advise from our CC Family. Good luck and keep us posted on your progress.

    in reply to: Newly diagnosed, had whipple, awaiting chemo #34758
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    Randi, I am more familiar with Mayo in Rochester MN and MD Anderson in Houston. I know its a project but if you can Fax them your results they will give you an idea over the phone. We have quite a few of our “Family” in your NY area. I just know they will also chime in to help. Marion is also excellent at telling people of possible places to get in touch with. This is the weekend and sometimes we are not that busy on line but I bet by tomorrow night you get a bunch of responses. I am still in awe of your progress. It took Teddy about 6 months but then he had an aborted Whipple, then a double ecoli infection then the “real deal Whipple” at the age of 73. Then when we got home (we had been visiting our kids in Milwaukee) 3 months later, he developed a small hole at the resection and had to go in to rehab with nothing to eat or drink for a month. Just an IV & candy bag. The hole did heal on it’s own by starving it. They just didn’t want to do more surgery on him at that time. With all that, the healing took a little longer. Oh not to mention that when flying back to Phoenix from Milwaukee both tubes he had in his stomach….blew out on the plane. What a mess. He was telling my daughter when we finally arrived, “did ya see the movie Airplane?” We cracked up. Keep up your great attitude and good luck on getting a 2nd opinion.

    in reply to: Cholangitis #34788
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    Hi Betsy. Sorry to hear you took that trip but glad they feel it is scar tissue. I think Teddy is heading the same direction and I have been wondering if it is scar tissue, what they might do. Did he mention how they take care of the scar tissue?

    in reply to: My Husband and Cholangiocarcinoma #34404
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    Hi Margaret, butinsky here, buttin in…..Teddy and I attended a conference here in PHX last March with Marion. The Conference was for surgical Oncologists from all over the World. We actually met quite a few from Asia. Not sure but I think there were about 2,000 ONCS. About 15,000 people a year get CC. In my book 1 is too many, know what I mean? There is not much research done on CC because it is so rare but I just read where a little research is being done in Tawian. Never heard it was more prevalent in Asia but it is said they do have a parasite in some of the water called a “liver flukes” that may be a carrier. It attaches itself to the bile ducts and lives there undetected for 30-40 years. When it leaves it leaves behind CC. You can look it up on the Web. We had a few Korean Vets on our site who had CC, Teddy being one of them. This is not proven yet, just considered. It doesn’t account for others who have not been to Asia. I think many doctors poo-poo treatment because they don’t know enough about it! Any doctor who poos treatment about anything to me does not want to admit he doesn’t know. That is when I run to another doctor. Sorry, that is just how I feel about a rare disease. Also why we tell people to ask a doctor how many patients he has treated with CC. I love all your questions as the best way to “kick” this is to learn as much as you can. Keep on asking and keep on kicking!

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