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    Yes Pam that does help a lot! Thank you for sharing…i hope it’s not too
    painful to talk about being so fresh. :(

    dorien

    thebompie4
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    Pam

    I’m also curious as to how she got surgery–both drs we talked to said
    that once it’s left the liver, surgery is not ever an option.

    Was your dr willing to take a risk? (sorry I’m late to your whole “front
    story”…I’ve mostly been around for the very sad ending. :( )

    we keep asking about this and they all keep saying kyle will never be
    a candidate for surgery because the cancer has left the liver.

    so i’m confused why some docs do this and some don’t?

    that’s just a curiosity question mostly. Thanks~

    thebompie4
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    Thanks Lainy! Got it and responded.

    Thanks Pam for your kind words

    … I probably shouldn’t even have asked this.

    I just wanted to know if it had ever been done.

    in reply to: Confusion re tumour markers? #73905
    thebompie4
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    i think that some people DO have “normal” tumor markers and some don’t.

    The ONE THING i’ve found with this cancer is that it sure doesn’t seem
    to be a very predictable one. So many people have SO many different
    things going on, and reactions and responses etc etc.

    I know I’ve asked about the Ca 19-9 before and they (the Drs) only use
    it as a “guide”.

    My husband (who has Stage 4) has only ever had SLIGHTLY high numbers–so I wouldn’t put “all your eggs in one basket” so to speak by basing solely on
    those numbers.

    Hope that helps
    Dorien

    in reply to: Hemp oil #73884
    thebompie4
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    I am ALWAYS skeptical of things like this…

    IF it was a “cure” for cancer–wouldn’t people be using it all the time
    and being cured?

    Not sure it would hurt to add to the “fight”–but the skeptic in me
    always thinks IF there was a “cure all” for this darn disease–people
    would be doing the “cure” and there would be no more cancer. :(

    in reply to: Recently diagnosed, our journey so far. #72403
    thebompie4
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    so sorry to hear of your loss.

    in reply to: How things are going #73705
    thebompie4
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    sending love your way.

    thank you for sharing with us in your most vulnerable time.

    Dorien

    in reply to: New Diagnosis #72541
    thebompie4
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    welcome–so sorry to hear about your husband (my 44 yr old husband
    was diagnosed with stage 4 in march)–it’s a tough lonely battle
    you are right!!

    he also is not eligible for surgery (metas. to lungs and lymphs)…

    so we battle forward with chemo–he has had a good good response
    so far and we will keep plugging forward.

    hugs to you from Utah.
    Dorien

    in reply to: The “S” Word #73530
    thebompie4
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    YAY for shrinkage and “AMEN” on the highs and lows of this disease!

    We are mtg with the Dr today to get results of my husbands 2nd PET scan.
    (he just finished his 2nd FULL round *8 weeks* of chemo since diagnosis
    in March of this yr.)

    Dorien

    thebompie4
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    great news!

    in reply to: Hello, new member!! #73487
    thebompie4
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    also the fact that surgery is even an OPTION for you guys?

    HUGE and wonderful! very very good news!

    in reply to: Hello, new member!! #73486
    thebompie4
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    Welcome Heather..
    my husband has ICC as well–he’s 44 and has never been sick a day in life
    besides having a cold (or two).

    His has gone to lymph nodes (two-local) and lungs so he is NOT
    a candidate for surgery. (He’s Stage 4).

    BUT he’s a fighter and has responded well to the Gem/Cis chemo
    regimen so far…

    Best wishes with all that lies (lays?) ahead….

    Dorien

    in reply to: Newb #73437
    thebompie4
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    I’m with you on being a realist…that’s for sure!

    My husband has Stage 4 as well (he’s 44 and i thought THAT was young!)
    He was healthy as a horse with hardly even a cold in his entire life.

    Best wishes with everything…I have no advice–seems each person
    has their very own journey.

    I suspect yours will not go down without a HUGE fight!
    and that’s GREAT!

    (and right? who knew?? Bile Duct Cancer?? seriously!)
    That’s what we said too.

    in reply to: Dad Journey Ended #73344
    thebompie4
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    so sorry for your loss….

    in reply to: Just a little update! #73203
    thebompie4
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    best wishes

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