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Margaret,

One of the things I found helpful are protein powders that you can add to anything.

One of the oncology nurses suggested a website called : http://www.unjury.com when my Mom was undergoing chemo and we were concerned about her weight. Mom was also prescribed about 20ml of Megace which worked wonders with her appetite.

The website offers medical grade protein powders. I recently had lapband surgery and am using the powders to get added protein.

The stuff is amazing with no aftertastes or grit and comes in 6 flavors. The site has great info for bariatric patients to Chemo patients to Seniors.

For breakfast I have a large 24 oz glass of one scoop of vanilla or chocolate splendor protein powder (20grams) and add a carnation instant breakfast packet (9) grams and fill the cup with 2% milk and fill with ice. Counting the milk I have 35 grams of protein in what tastes like a great shake!

In Tom’s case you could use whole milk for the added calories. These powders are also great in soups (keep the temp under 130 degrees) and in numerous types of smoothies.

You are an amazing woman and your love for Tom shines through in all of your posts.

I’m sending prayers for strength, and numerous hugs and lots of love!

Pam

I’m happy that Tad no longer must suffer but my heart goes out to you and your family for what you’ve endured.

My prayer for you is that in time these last awful weeks will be replaced by the good memories you made before this monster of a disease entered your lives.

Sending hugs and prayers to you. We are always here if you need us.

Love,
Pam

Kris!

Thanks for the update! Lots of hugs, prayers and love are flying your way! Be sure and give the monkeybutt a hug too!

Pam

Kimmie,

I think you’re right about the Welbutrin. Being a Cytologist, I see way too much lung cancer coming across my microscope! You should be proud of yourself for making the decision to stop! I also know about the “better health” promises.

I’ve struggled with weight issues as has my daughter for the last 10 years. Most of it due to thyroid issues. I know it bothered my Mom a lot and so in July I started to do something about it. Two weeks ago I had lap band surgery and my daughter will be going with her husband for her final appointment to set her surgery date on Friday. I did it for me but also with my Mom’s concern in mind.

I miss her so much! I wanted to call and tell her and have her come and take care of me. I used to call her everyday on my way home from work and we would end up talking for almost 30 minutes. That is STILL such a void in my life.

Just remember to keep taking those baby steps. I also tried to remind myself that Mom would want me to be happy as would yours. I still have conversations with her in my mind every day. I like to picture my Mom in heaven having conversations with other loved ones about their children.

Just remember… we’re here for you!

Hugs, love and prayers coming your way!
Pam

Hang in there and I’m always here if you need a shoulder, or a cheerleader.

Kimmie,

I lost my Mom to this disease on April 3, 2009 and I still miss her every day. I would always call her everyday on my way home from work. It’s a little easier but there is such a void in my life. She was my greatest cheerleader and supporter and I still can’t quite wrap my head around the fact that she’s gone. I’ve found myself bursting into tears after passing someone in Walmart wearing her perfume.

All I can offer is give yourself time. Grieving is the hardest job we will ever do. There is NO rulebook, NO timetable, NO shortcuts…..you just have to work your way through it at your own pace. Be kind to yourself and realize that anyone who hasn’t gone through this may unintentionally be unkind and as one of my ??best friends?? said….get over it….grieving won’t bring her back…. Only my fear of prison kept me from from making a grave decision.

Come here often and feel free to vent. We know the pain and we can help each other.

I’m sending hugs, prayers for strength and lots of understanding love your way.

Hugs,
Pam

Oh Kris,

I have no advice for you except trust your instincts. They’ve always been spot on.

I am sending hugs and prayers for strength to you and your family.

Oh ladybug02142004,

Waiting is so hard! I wish I could reach through the computer and give you a hug!

I know it’s hard but try to take a deep breath and stay positive. I am sending hugs and tons of prayers your way. I will keep you and Dave in my prayers.

Please let us know how things go.

Hugs,
Pam